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To think reality shows of the early 2000s have not aged well! Doing a rewatch

334 replies

Imcomingovertoyourplace · 30/05/2025 08:35

So far I’ve watched
Playing it Straight (the homophobia is rife!)
Fat Families (just horrific, ‘lard busting’ and shaming overweight kids)
Big Fat Gypsy Weddings (did the producers never want to intervene with what is essentially child abuse?)

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Disturbia81 · 30/05/2025 12:26

StellaAndCrow · 30/05/2025 12:25

If you can find Space Cadets, that's a great/awful example of the genre.

They selected participants for gullibility, and persuaded them that they were going on a space mission. When all the time they were in a module on earth.

I need to watch this 😂

Beowulfa · 30/05/2025 12:29

The "historical reality" shows Victorian Farm/Edwardian Farm are still an enjoyable watch. Clumper the Shire horse was a star.

There is a 1960s BBC TV play called Year of the Sex Olympics (available via the BFI on DVD). It basically predicts everything about reality TV and the public appetite for more extremes.

Slatterndisgrace · 30/05/2025 12:33

ladyamy · 30/05/2025 12:22

Do you not mean bearded lady?

☺️ Well noted!

sashh · 30/05/2025 12:34

Puzzledandpissedoff · 30/05/2025 09:29

I didn't see any of these, but there was a pretty good one where people swapped jobs for a period, and after they'd learned the ropes a panel were invited to pick the one who was new to the task

I can't remember what it was called, but there was an amazing lass - a classical cellist - who learned to be an Ibiza DJ and was absolutely brilliant

Was that 'Faking it'.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 30/05/2025 12:36

Tbh nothing “ages well” if we look at it through the lens of today. Views, morals, language, humour, beliefs change over time. Humans have this tendency to believe that their current way of the world is the correct one. But in the future people will look back on today with the same kind of horror. People in the past would probably laugh at us tapping into our phones, talking to friends via social media media, getting preoccupied with happenings half way round the world that’s got nothing to do with us. They’d laugh at us injecting poisons into our face. Getting on tin cans to get from a to b. The about of time we stare at boxes with flashing lights.

Separately reality tv is shit, always has been shit and watched by the brainless.

Ramblethroughthebrambles · 30/05/2025 12:40

I agree with @Imcomingovertoyourplace and @WitchHag that reality shows often seem to exploit vulnerable people, including many with mental health problems, for entertainment. But can they be useful for using the power of real life stories to educate us about social issues / parenting/ nutrition with stronger oversight of program makers, or is it inevitable people will be exposed?

As an example of educational benefit, the person in my family who introduced me to Educating Yorkshire was inspired by that program and has gone on to train as a teacher, choosing to work in a tough school. Of course, they might have done that anyway, but that program made them think more about the effect a good teacher can have.

But then, there's the issue of whether young people always have the maturity and self-awareness to meaningfully consent.

whynotwhatknot · 30/05/2025 12:40

it hasnt got much better people are just fame hungry now at least back then like on big brother it felt more real

anyhone remember something about miryam that was so exploitative-they got sued aswell

Slatterndisgrace · 30/05/2025 12:43

whynotwhatknot · 30/05/2025 12:40

it hasnt got much better people are just fame hungry now at least back then like on big brother it felt more real

anyhone remember something about miryam that was so exploitative-they got sued aswell

Death of a Reality Star. Just found it. It can be watched on Channel 4 online.

TheQuirkyMaker · 30/05/2025 12:49

Slatterndisgrace · 30/05/2025 12:03

‘Make me a Supermodel’?

No, they were women who a realistic chance of being a model. The woman I am thinking of was being exploited by the TV company because it was obvious she had no chance. But to be fair, the motivation was coming from her, which made it sadder.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 30/05/2025 12:57

sashh · 30/05/2025 12:34

Was that 'Faking it'.

It was, yes sashh - we identified it upthread and I added one of my favourites Smile

StepawayfromtheLindors · 30/05/2025 13:05

JudgeJ · 30/05/2025 09:37

Maybe those places don't have problem schools or families and are so perfect???

I think it’s because the production execs themselves live in these counties. The premise of this series is that Yorkshire or Essex or Liverpool or wherever need “educating”. By omission from the series, other counties don’t.

Dated, regressive, negative stereotyping of different parts of the UK.

Allaboutmememe · 30/05/2025 13:08

Most shows were just fake with paid actors or just randoms that would take part for a bit of cash.
Scam city / gypsy weddings / freaky eaters/ you are what you eat was some and many many more.

StellaAndCrow · 30/05/2025 13:09

StellaAndCrow · 30/05/2025 13:07

I thought they'd removed all trace of it, but turns out it's on YouTube!

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- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9i3O33KeG5g

BoudiccaRuled · 30/05/2025 13:16

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 30/05/2025 12:36

Tbh nothing “ages well” if we look at it through the lens of today. Views, morals, language, humour, beliefs change over time. Humans have this tendency to believe that their current way of the world is the correct one. But in the future people will look back on today with the same kind of horror. People in the past would probably laugh at us tapping into our phones, talking to friends via social media media, getting preoccupied with happenings half way round the world that’s got nothing to do with us. They’d laugh at us injecting poisons into our face. Getting on tin cans to get from a to b. The about of time we stare at boxes with flashing lights.

Separately reality tv is shit, always has been shit and watched by the brainless.

Many people watching it today would have the exact same reactions, it's just the official, broadcastable opinions that have changed. Travellers, professional benefits claimants, very camp gays - still being judged by many, just not out loud in public.
Love Island cones across as even more morally dubious, but I'm probably just a prude.

KrisAkabusi · 30/05/2025 13:26

BoredZelda · 30/05/2025 10:45

She was a “nutritionist” whatever that means!

She pretended she was a doctor by saying she had a PHD from some bogus US “College of Nutrition” which has no accreditation and didn’t actually check the credentials of people applying. Ben Goldacre, who wrote “Bad Science” (fabulous book) managed to register his cat with the same qualifications.

Unsurprisingly, she went on to peddle covid and vaccine misinformation. She is a hideous woman!

I was going to mention that. One of the great article beginnings ever:

"Gillian McKeith, or to give her full medical title, Gillian McKeith, . . . "

blacksantanapkin · 30/05/2025 13:35

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 30/05/2025 10:07

The first one was brilliant. All the controversy over Nasty Nick, which essentially boiled down to the fact a man had smuggled a pencil in 🤣.

I found one and two genuinely fascinating viewing. But the fourth or fifth series the contestants were openly admitting they were going in to get a showmance and a magazine deal and I stopped watching as it was no longer interesting to me.

haha I was too young to watch Big Brother was that series but somehow knew of ‘nasty nick’ and that he was evil and did terrible things. I heard him mentioned years and years later and it occurred to me that I didn’t actually know what the evil things were, looked him up and was like ‘is that it 🫤’

BemusedBrenda · 30/05/2025 13:38

I remember one episode of Secret Eaters where a man was eating double cream on his cereal every day. He genuinely didn't realise it had more calories than milk and thought it was a healthy choice. He was pretty devastated by the revelation - probably one of the only really useful interventions on the show!

AliceDownTheRabbitHole · 30/05/2025 13:39

America's Next Top Model is wild! Tyra is kind of a bitch 😂

whynotwhatknot · 30/05/2025 13:41

Slatterndisgrace · 30/05/2025 12:43

Death of a Reality Star. Just found it. It can be watched on Channel 4 online.

yep very sad

MyUmberSeal · 30/05/2025 13:46

AliceDownTheRabbitHole · 30/05/2025 13:39

America's Next Top Model is wild! Tyra is kind of a bitch 😂

I absolutely loved that show. Tyra was a brute with the contestants, but that’s what made it so bloody good 🤣.

Imcomingovertoyourplace · 30/05/2025 13:50

@MyUmberSealand the plus size models who were about a size 10

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legsekeven · 30/05/2025 13:53

BemusedBrenda · 30/05/2025 13:38

I remember one episode of Secret Eaters where a man was eating double cream on his cereal every day. He genuinely didn't realise it had more calories than milk and thought it was a healthy choice. He was pretty devastated by the revelation - probably one of the only really useful interventions on the show!

And the woman who ate salad for every meal but added half a jar of mayonnaise to each one. They told her she was having more calories then if she had eaten a full curry. She absolutely would not accept it

AlecTrevelyan006 · 30/05/2025 13:57

The first series of Big Brother was fascinating and brilliant tv. Series was 2 was also quite good, then it started to go rapidly downhill once people saw it as an 'easy' route to fame.

DaxieTaxi · 30/05/2025 14:08

dayslikethese1 · 30/05/2025 09:23

Trinny and Susana always dressed everyone exactly the same, it was always a long tan coat and bootcut trousers, oh and a heel of course because the participants/victims had to look 'feminine'😁

Yes! And do you remember that weird ‘wrap dress over wide leg trousers’ style they also forced on just about everyone? It was hard to watch at times, women in floods of tears because they were just so forceful.

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