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Is ‘shunter for British Rail’ a working class job?

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Correction · 28/05/2025 08:15

Been dating a man for 7 months. He was born 1970 just FYI. His parents were both born in 1927 just for context and both long gone from this world.

I know his mum worked in a care home - but I really don’t know her level of seniority- could’ve bern a manager - could’ve had a more routine job - I haven’t asked.

Anyway - I know he was close to his Dad and seemed to be a happy family but had no clue what his Dad did for a living so asked him over the weekend and he said

‘Shunter for British Rail.

AIBU to ask if you’d class it as a working class job?

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Blackdow · 28/05/2025 12:28

Correction · 28/05/2025 08:21

And relatively well paid I see - not BRILLIANT pay admittedly but not low pay - although shunters would no longer be BR employees

What does the pay matter? It was his dad’s
job a long time ago. Are you looking for a man with a good inheritance?

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 12:32

heavenisaplaceonearth · 28/05/2025 12:07

@Floatlikeafeather2 I have a huge family that has had large families for many generations. I’m aware that contraception was very hard to access right into the 70s for British women and harder still in other parts. I’m also acutely aware of fertility and its fluctuation over a woman’s life. I’m surprised that people think large numbers of children were born to mothers in their mid to late 40s. I’m not sure why you think having a different experience than yours and questioning how common that experience is, is suggesting you are “lying”. Do you usually only talk to people who think exactly what you think?

What does it matter anyway? She’s just stating a fact - her DP was born when his parents were both 43. So what? Are people suggesting this would have been impossible because clearly it isn’t? I’m not sure why it has any relevance to anything.

MrsHamlet · 28/05/2025 12:34

I think the fishplates are mainly laid by the heavy machinery now but there are still people involved in permanent way.

Dahliasrule · 28/05/2025 12:38

To add to the age and births debate, I was born in the 1940s when my mother was 42.

Ohmygodthepain · 28/05/2025 12:40

Correction · 28/05/2025 08:40

OK…….

I’m grateful to everyone who’s responded to me even if you’ve called me snobbish etc .. I wanted responses etc .. I got them.

To those who called me snobbish - I’m not currently working and have considered trying for this job myself actually

one slight problem though - I really want to work for British Rail not the regional companies that are around now 😭

British Rail hasn't existed since it was privatized in 1997.

You'll struggle to find a job with them now op, no matter what status you think working there would provide...

Jarstastic · 28/05/2025 12:44

heavenisaplaceonearth · 28/05/2025 08:35

Then you’ll be aware that having children over 40 in the 1970s was fairly rare. I think you were considered ancient over 30!

It was not as common as it is now, but I don't think it was that rare. e.g. If I think of a certain time in my life when I lived in a house where we knew lots children around my age in the immediate area and my parents were friends with their parents. Say 12-15 children around my age, at least 2 were born to parents 40+ - one was a longed-awaited first child, one was an accident youngest child of 3. And this was in England. It definitely was not uncommon in Ireland for younger children.

I can't find anything easily now on how many children it would have actually been in England. However, I remember reading about years ago that births to older mothers were higher at the end of the 19th century/start of the 20th century. Many women went into service and only married and had children after they'd done a few years work. This changed after the big houses stopped having staff post wars etc.

I've got to get back to work so this is what I've found quickly now
"There is a tendency to think of this as a modern phenomenon associated with the rise of family planning, greater economic independence for women and the development of medical techniques that can increase fertility in older people. But the average age of women at first birth today (29.6) is not very different to what it was in 1938 (29.0), and fertility among women in their forties was higher at the start of WWII and during the 1940s than it was in 2010.
The average age of women at first birth was lower at the end of the 1960s than at any other point since 1938. Before the 1960s, the average age of women both at their first birth and across all births was higher, despite this being a period of higher fertility, lower life expectancy and less economic equality between the sexes."

Correction · 28/05/2025 12:46

donthaveaname · 28/05/2025 11:10

now you're just taking the piss!!! 😂😂😂

Ok but seriously though - it IS a job I’ve seen .. does it still exist ? Im assuming so not having heard to the contrary

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Floatlikeafeather2 · 28/05/2025 12:46

heavenisaplaceonearth · 28/05/2025 12:07

@Floatlikeafeather2 I have a huge family that has had large families for many generations. I’m aware that contraception was very hard to access right into the 70s for British women and harder still in other parts. I’m also acutely aware of fertility and its fluctuation over a woman’s life. I’m surprised that people think large numbers of children were born to mothers in their mid to late 40s. I’m not sure why you think having a different experience than yours and questioning how common that experience is, is suggesting you are “lying”. Do you usually only talk to people who think exactly what you think?

Absolutely not. I usually don't know what they think at all until I've talked to them and wouldn't fall out with them if we didn't agree (excluding some politicians and supporters thereof). But I do know this was the case with my great grandmother, who died just before I was born, because I knew my
grandfather well, and through my sister's extensive research into our family history, so other branches in other locations in this country.. My husband is fanatical about his family history and his research demonstrates this too. What I would say, from research and listening to others, is that historically, large families usually mean continued fertility to a later age than we now see as typical.

Uricon2 · 28/05/2025 12:47

Totally, my mother/grandmother and great grandmother all had babies in their 40s (gt Gran finished at 52, having started at 15) I really don't think it is that unusual now and certainly wasn't a century ago.

( Edit as meant to quote @WearyAuldWumman )

NotMeNoNo · 28/05/2025 12:51

It sounds like your DP has solid working class roots and will be a grounded and practical person - snap him up.

I've seen some memes along these lines https://www.reddit.com/r/coolguides/comments/i17z8c/an_updated_improved_version_of_the_social_classes/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button and of course it's just stereotypes but it reminded me there are positives in every level of society.

Is ‘shunter for British Rail’ a working class job?
accentdusoleil · 28/05/2025 12:59

Someone’s got a Train fetish

Justkeepingplatesspinning · 28/05/2025 13:02

My father worked for BR back in the day. They treated their staff well, pension, travel passes etc. It was a good place to be no matter if you were driving a train or working in the ticket office. As someone else said, being a shunter was jolly hard work and you needed your wits about you. It was probably blue collar rather than white collar work but it paid well.
I've no idea where it would be in terms of socio economic class. Skilled manual?

Justkeepingplatesspinning · 28/05/2025 13:05

accentdusoleil · 28/05/2025 12:59

Someone’s got a Train fetish

waves I love trains! Especially steam trains. Inherited it from my father.

Correction · 28/05/2025 13:08

NotMeNoNo · 28/05/2025 12:51

It sounds like your DP has solid working class roots and will be a grounded and practical person - snap him up.

I've seen some memes along these lines https://www.reddit.com/r/coolguides/comments/i17z8c/an_updated_improved_version_of_the_social_classes/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button and of course it's just stereotypes but it reminded me there are positives in every level of society.

I love this thanks so much for posting

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BIossomtoes · 28/05/2025 13:13

Ohmygodthepain · 28/05/2025 12:40

British Rail hasn't existed since it was privatized in 1997.

You'll struggle to find a job with them now op, no matter what status you think working there would provide...

It’s being renationalised as the contracts expire.

DurinsBane · 28/05/2025 15:20

Bear in mind, if you fancy being one, that there are different types of shunters jobs. Shunter Drivers drive trains round the sidings, usually in places where there is a maintenance shed. They get paid about 40k. A Shunter (without the Driver part) doesn’t drive the trains, they are responsible for the sidings, pulling hand points, organising where the mainline drivers put the trains in the sidings, seeing service out etc. They will be in places that don’t have Shunter drivers, usually places without a maintenance shed etc. They usually get paid 30k if not a bit lower.

WheresMyPlanetGone · 28/05/2025 15:31

Correction · 28/05/2025 11:01

Thank you - I’d like to be a shunter but those jobs you’ve mentioned sound good too

Had you even heard of a shunter before your boyfriend told you that his dad had been one?

CountryMumof4 · 28/05/2025 17:12

Did you also post about retraining as a shunter in December under a different username?

heavenisaplaceonearth · 28/05/2025 17:51

Uricon2 · 28/05/2025 12:47

Totally, my mother/grandmother and great grandmother all had babies in their 40s (gt Gran finished at 52, having started at 15) I really don't think it is that unusual now and certainly wasn't a century ago.

( Edit as meant to quote @WearyAuldWumman )

Edited

I would say having 5 babies in your 40s was far less usual than having 5 in your teens. It’s possible both for something to be rare AND for you to know or be descended from someone who experienced it.

Vynalbob · 28/05/2025 17:54

Yes I'd class it as working class. A good steady employment via BR but you can't compare wages. Around the time privatisation happened (just before to a little after) a lot of perks were thrown away and swapped for increases in wages.

SwanOfThoseThings · 28/05/2025 18:01

It's a fascinating job. Did he shunt for most of his railway career, or was he a passenger/freight driver who moved onto shunting towards the end of his career (drivers often moved to this lower-stress job in the run up to retirement)?

Correction · 28/05/2025 18:11

DelphiniumBlue · 28/05/2025 11:51

You can be well paid and working class. You can be poor and middle class.
This is not America.

Ok no need to quote my least favourite favourite David Bowie song at meGrin

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Correction · 28/05/2025 18:12

SwanOfThoseThings · 28/05/2025 18:01

It's a fascinating job. Did he shunt for most of his railway career, or was he a passenger/freight driver who moved onto shunting towards the end of his career (drivers often moved to this lower-stress job in the run up to retirement)?

I would guess he shunted for most of his railway career

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Correction · 28/05/2025 18:12

WheresMyPlanetGone · 28/05/2025 15:31

Had you even heard of a shunter before your boyfriend told you that his dad had been one?

Actually no

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Uricon2 · 28/05/2025 18:29

heavenisaplaceonearth · 28/05/2025 17:51

I would say having 5 babies in your 40s was far less usual than having 5 in your teens. It’s possible both for something to be rare AND for you to know or be descended from someone who experienced it.

Not sure what you mean, none of them had 5 babies in their 40s (which I agree would be extremely rare) Sorry if I've missed something.

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