Am I asking too much with him?

[LoyalBird]

Hi.ive been dating someone for over 2 years.hes divorced.i was in a 10year relationship before him.happy with our situation,see each other a few times a week,both like our own space.he doesn’t do deep conversations,feelings etc.its like saying anything nice pains him!and when he is nice I can’t tell if it’s sarcasm!if I say something nice he’ll say ahh or ditto.its actually making me feel quite insecure.some reassurance or some nice words now and then wouldn’t go a miss.am I missing something here,are some men like this or is he just not that into me?!
am I expecting too much?

No, you are not expecting too much, but you are expecting to much from him. After two years, you can't tell if he's being sarcastic when he says something nice? I don't think you are compatible. As time goes on it's not going to change for the better.

Where is this going op?

Well, you know what he's like and he's not going to change his personality. You can't force people to say 'nice' things to you/about you. It wouldn't be genuine or sincere if they're doing it simply to placate you.

If he shows affection and love and loyalty to you in plenty of other ways then you maybe can see past that side?

Or if not then it's best to probably part ways as if that's a deal breaker you're not going to be long term compatible.

Sounds like you aren’t compatible. After 2 years and he’s not saying nice things or giving compliments. Life’s too short to be with a man who makes you feel insecure.

Are you afraid of being single?