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To return to education in my 30s or continue with current career path?

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LorettaYoung · 27/05/2025 16:56

I've worked in marketing for sixteen years and I'm in my early 30s. Although I've worked hard and delivered amazing campaigns and projects, I've struggled to get promoted (I've always got raises, but not change of title). I got close when I had an amazing manager who believed in me but then he left and there was no chance, especially as he left due to a useless manager who soon became my manager.

Anyway, I was made redundant this year and I had a bit of a breakdown due to life things building up. I had a growing sense of 'is this it?' before it happened and feel like I'm at rock bottom. My dream was always to become a playwright. I have had two plays put on locally before and was even shortlisted for a UK prize two years ago. I go to plays whenever I can and I'm already a performer in a different medium.

An old editor of mine essentially has my dream life - she did a Masters in dramaturgy and theatre, then opened her own theatre company. Her background was also in marketing, so she still works in the industry part-time.

My dilemma is this:

I have a job interview tomorrow and the opportunity seems promising. It would mean taking a slight pay cut, but it would get me back on the ladder in the same industry full-time. Essentially I'd be continuing what I was doing before...

If I got this job, but also applied for the Masters, I'd have to leave after only three months in the job. For one thing, reputation matters in this industry and I don't feel comfortable with shafting someone. At the same time - what guarantee is there I'd get accepted to the course in September?

I also have an interview to be a summer creative writing tutor which would bring some money in but not to be so permanent. I'm struggling to decide which way to turn.

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LorettaYoung · 27/05/2025 17:49

Anyone?

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MetaDaughter · 27/05/2025 17:51

I don’t see the either / or that you’re describing.

For one thing it’s not impossible to study for an MA while working full time. People do.

But more realistically you could surely do one full time and one part time. I can tell you that pretty much everyone I’ve known who has studied at a drama school or a conservatoire has been pretty occupied with paid work at the same time as studying. I’m aware that a specific course you want to apply to may only operate full time; you either choose a different one or find a job with fewer hours - like your old editor.

I do sympathise with the indecision - it took me years to stumble on a course that was so compelling all obstacles fell away. But don’t forget you’re getting older every day - don’t waste time.

MoetUndChandon · 27/05/2025 17:54

You will definitely get accepted on the course with your background

sesquipedalian · 27/05/2025 17:56

“she did a Masters in dramaturgy and theatre, then opened her own theatre company. ”

I assume she had some money behind her, though, and you say she also does marketing part-time. I think what you do depends on several things - you need to find out how much you like the people at tomorrow’s job interview / how well you think you would fit into their organisation. There’s no guarantee you’d get the job - but that’s also true of the creative writing gig. Can you afford to live with no money coming in until September? How would you finance the Masters? I think you have to be realistic, and finance will necessarily play a part.

MetaDaughter · 27/05/2025 18:02

Presumably (unless she has already used up a loan on another postgraduate course) the OP will apply for a Government Postgraduate Loan to cover the fees for her Master’s course?

https://www.gov.uk/masters-loan

Master's Loan

Get a postgraduate master's loan to help fund a full-time or part-time master's degree: find out if you're eligible and how much you can get.

https://www.gov.uk/masters-loan

LorettaYoung · 27/05/2025 19:02

@MetaDaughter I think it depends. For this job, I'd be working in the next city an hour away. No way I'd be able to juggle that AND the Masters I'm looking at - says online that even if you do part-time, you'd be expected to attend same in person classes full-time, from 3-5 days per week.

If I stay in the industry I'm in and take a job like the one I'm interviewing for, the pro is I'll be back in work and a steady income again. The con is that the feeling of being stuck which I believe has led to my current mental health issues will still be there. And it will be the same kind of role, so I'm not sure how much more I'm going to learn. The feeling of treading water is soul destroying after a while.

@sesquipedalian yes I'll be able to finance the Masters due to a small inheritance I recently received and government funding. Just about. I could maybe stretch current earnings to the end of summer but something like that temporary tutoring job in July-August might help.

I am considering renting out my spare bedroom for that one year although I don't love the idea of it to be honest.

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LorettaYoung · 27/05/2025 19:02

Saying all this, I could turn down a perfectly good job in my current area and then not get accepted to the Masters!

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