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AIBU to be thinking about this?

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Ethicaldebacle · 27/05/2025 10:16

I have two, 3rd round interviews this week, plus two other first rounds lined up. Plus other two that should materialise into a 3rd round and a first round but they're being slow.

So overall my pipeline isn't that terrible. I started applying the 29th of April, and so far have applied for 28 jobs. So theoretically 5:1 to first round interview ratio which isn't terrible.

Anywho... To my surprise salaries are higher than I originally expected, and I was most certainly underpaid in my previous role. (Last year salaries plummeted but they clearly have recovered).

One of the 3rd rounds the salary is actually out of the benchmark because of how low it is. It's still more than I made in my previous role, but just about the same a role I was in 2 years ago.

I really like the company, and the HM, and we're financially stable, so to me it almost feels greedy, but at the same time, I don't want to miss on £££.

All companies have more or less the same amount of potential growth, but this company is the one where I can see wanting to have the HM as a mentor.

Obviously it's all hypothetical, but one of those things that are "nice" to think about.

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loropianalover · 27/05/2025 10:18

Sorry what’s the AIBU?

Ethicaldebacle · 27/05/2025 10:19

loropianalover · 27/05/2025 10:18

Sorry what’s the AIBU?

That I haven't even passed to offer stage and already thkinking the salary is too low (in comparison to the benchmark).

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loropianalover · 27/05/2025 10:24

Ethicaldebacle · 27/05/2025 10:19

That I haven't even passed to offer stage and already thkinking the salary is too low (in comparison to the benchmark).

I don’t see how considering the salary of a potential new job could be unreasonable? Isn’t the salary like 80% of the point of a job 🤣

SunshineAndFizz · 27/05/2025 10:24

Negotiate. Negotiate. Negotiate. I’d never take an opening offer on salary.

Ethicaldebacle · 27/05/2025 10:27

SunshineAndFizz · 27/05/2025 10:24

Negotiate. Negotiate. Negotiate. I’d never take an opening offer on salary.

Yeah, I think that's what I'll have to do in the end. I originally gave them a range, and gave me the bottom of the range (but the top of the bonus).

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Ethicaldebacle · 27/05/2025 10:28

loropianalover · 27/05/2025 10:24

I don’t see how considering the salary of a potential new job could be unreasonable? Isn’t the salary like 80% of the point of a job 🤣

Not for me! My work/job/professional approach is slightly different.

However, I took a pay cut for a title bump, and that was most certainly a mistake.

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TheSandgroper · 27/05/2025 11:31

A bloke would never, ever ask that question of himself. Ever.

Ethicaldebacle · 27/05/2025 11:32

TheSandgroper · 27/05/2025 11:31

A bloke would never, ever ask that question of himself. Ever.

I think it's more a "bird in hand" situation.

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TheSandgroper · 27/05/2025 11:34

A bloke wouldn’t think about a bird in the hand, either. If you are looking around to see about getting out, you are ready to get out.

Ethicaldebacle · 27/05/2025 11:36

TheSandgroper · 27/05/2025 11:34

A bloke wouldn’t think about a bird in the hand, either. If you are looking around to see about getting out, you are ready to get out.

My role has been made redundant, thus "bird in the hand".

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Laura95167 · 27/05/2025 18:08

loropianalover · 27/05/2025 10:24

I don’t see how considering the salary of a potential new job could be unreasonable? Isn’t the salary like 80% of the point of a job 🤣

99%

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