Long story short me and my partner have not been getting on for a few weeks now, lack of intimacy which leads to less intimacy in the bedroom, we both have our faults and can both be abit snappy at times. He likes to game which is fine we all have hobbies but at one point it was 7 nights a week and I was coming to bed on my own, I told him this isn’t ok and he has stopped as much, now 2 nights a week and I go and have some time to myself once LO has gone to bed.
I recently found out I’m pregnant with baby number 2 unexpectedly and it’s not what either of us want right now, we accepted it but haven’t really spoke about it.
Today we had a massive blow up. Over him telling me to shut up (he was stressed doing some flat pack and my toddler was jumping on him) it’s ended up in a massive row and we’ve essentially said we’re done. We’ve cooled down and had a chat and he said he just needs some space so he’s going to his moms until the end of the week but he loves me and he doesn’t want to split up.
I can’t help but feel he just wants to go to his moms to be waited on and play on his Xbox without any backlash, and I’m just here holding down the fort working full time caring for our toddler and running the house.