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To not want to live next to a football stadium?

445 replies

Nataliaa · 25/05/2025 22:40

We’ve found a house that in all ways is perfect for us. In terms of price, close to work, size, minimal work needed - we could happily live with the interior, as it is- so no rush to put our stamp on it. No renovations needed. However, it is very close to a football stadium. My DH is saying if I let that one negative sway my decision, we would be turning down our dream family home and as we have been house hunting for 6 months and have not come close to finding any house that ticks so many of our wants, we would regret not going for this one.
My DH says that whilst there may be some disruption on match days, it’s not going to be every single weekend, and therefore minimal.
Am I really being picky, or would this be an issue for others?? Would you happily live near a football stadium?

OP posts:
Poppinjay · 27/05/2025 19:10

I can't stand football and get really irritated by the noise from the very small (but ambitious) football club a few hundred yards from my house. The yelling throughout evenings and weekends is painful but probably more so because I view the game so negatively. There are quite a lot of parking issues for people who live closer every weekend and the lights in the evenings affect those who live closest too.

I can't imagine you will only notice the club on big match days so, if it will bother you, I wouldn't risk it. If you aren't likely to be bothered by general noise, lights and parking and will only feel affected by big match days and large crowds, you could just plan around them by going out on those days.

Littletreefrog · 27/05/2025 19:15

Up until recently I lived 5 minutes walk to a Championship ground. The main problem was parking as we were the first street nearest the ground that wasn't permit only so everyone parked on our street and it was on street parking only. If you timed it wrong you were walking around 5 minutes from your car to your door which is not ideal with shopping/kids. This was the only issue and we just got used to it, I didn't mind it and it was actually really handy as DS had a season ticket from 12 and could get there and back by himself. If it's going to annoy you though don't do it, there is no point being wound up every other Saturday when you can just find a different house without these issues.

Kellph83 · 27/05/2025 19:16

Nataliaa · 25/05/2025 23:20

It is Millwall, yes! I know it probably doesn’t seem like the area for anyone’s dream home, but it’s genuinely a really lovely house and nowhere else would be closer to where we both work, although of course we never set out to find a house right on the doorstep of work, we expected and hoped for somewhere a short commute. So this was an unexpected find!

I used to live 5 mins from the emirates and honestly it was fine! Match day parking if people were coming over was a bit annoying but in terms of fans being loud etc it wasn’t a problem. Quite entertaining really. If it’s your dream home I’d say go for it. You’ll have double glazing so won’t hear anything anyway.

Polyethyl · 27/05/2025 19:19

In 2002 I was a volunteer in St John Ambulance. I was asked to provide first aid support at a Millwall home match against Birmingham.
This is what happened.
https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2002/may/04/footballviolence.football

We St John Ambulance volunteers had to be barricaded into the first aid room till 2am and then the police blue lighted us to our various homes.
The rioters intentionally hurt the Police Horses. They broke bottles and used the broken glass to slash at the horses legs.

The house has an affordable price for a reason.

Police may sue Millwall over violence

Police were yesterday considering taking the unprecedented step of suing a football club for the behaviour of its fans after violence erupted outside Millwall's ground.

https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2002/may/04/footballviolence.football

Ruesy · 27/05/2025 19:20

I live 100 meters from a championship football ground, it's really not that bad and if you have off street parking even better, I am not a football supporter but have been there to see many a band, most recently foo fighters and Artic monkeys, you can get fixture dates in advance and plan leaving home around them, it's really just 20 mins for the area to clear after As we are so close during matches there is a police presence so any trouble, if any, is further away. We also have rugby and womans football although they aren't so busy, I have been in my house 30 years and have never witnesses any trouble first hand and have no plan on moving.

DreamTheMoors · 27/05/2025 19:23

Nataliaa · 25/05/2025 22:48

It’s a championship team, I think that could equate to 20,000 fans maybe! It’s on a long road that leads to the stadium. Can’t see it from the house, because the stadium is on a road off the main one, but it’s like less than 5 mins to walk

During university, they built a football (American) stadium next to the school.
It was also next to some pricey condos that college professors and wealthy students had purchased - and they were furious. Their property value dropped significantly.
Because it was a huge college city, every game was packed and the parking lot filled immediately. The streets everywhere were lined with cars. The noise was unbearable.
That remains today. The school football team is also a winner, climbing through leagues, which attracts more interest, which attracts more fans.
And the planners didn’t care, because “school spirit and football.” And money - don’t forget about money.
I can remember being blocks away and hearing the announcer and the roar of the crowd.
Then they added a baseball diamond to it. So hundreds of day games began.
The noise wasn’t every night, but it wasn’t just the noise - it was the parking and oh - the vandalism by “fans.”

RetirementIsGreat · 27/05/2025 19:24

If moved football moved, it will be turned into concert stadium everyday or weekend.

riceuten · 27/05/2025 19:28

Leyton Orient - I’d live next door to. Arsenal, Spurs, Crystal Palace - no. Planning your whole life around football fixtures would be tiresome.

Willwetalk · 27/05/2025 19:30

Nataliaa · 25/05/2025 22:55

It is also a team that has a bit of a bad reputation for their fans 🙈 although some
colleagues that support this team, say the reputation is from the 70’s/80’s and very much outdated. It is, according to them, a family club these days with relatively few problems. But I do acknowledge that it’s probably this reputation that is adding to my apprehension!

Millwall?

SpottyShoes123 · 27/05/2025 19:35

I lived next to a stadium on match days in the 90’s. I would actually go to a match and get inside the stadium as this will give you the best idea as to atmosphere (fun rowdy, dangerous rowdy etc).

it becomes second nature to avoid/plan when you live there and it becomes second nature like avoiding school traffic if you can. Also when the match is on, there’s very little crowds/disruption as they’re all in the stadium.
I definitely wouldn’t refuse a house for this reason only.

LaughingCat · 27/05/2025 19:42

Nataliaa · 26/05/2025 00:30

You’re right, we are totally clueless. I only know they play in the championship, which I thought must be the top league. Which was
wrong! I do personally think we should wait until there is a game there and check it out. Even if that means risking losing out. That way i’m not ruling it out completely and I don’t think that’s being too picky. It’s a compromise. I will consider it once a visit on match day is possible.

I lived on the road to Old Trafford for years and it was absolutely fine (The Firm didn’t exactly have the greatest reputation either).

But never any trouble, no mess left, you barely notice match days (and it’s 70,000 at OT!). Nice to hear the gigs from the upstairs windows on the odd nights they’re on too.

I think you’ll probably lose the house if you wait until August but sounds like you weren’t sold on the whole idea from the get go..

JustSawJohnny · 27/05/2025 19:44

Nataliaa · 25/05/2025 23:34

The only people in my life that actually go to Millwall are the colleagues that said there is rarely any trouble these days and the reputation is outdated. Does anyone on here have any actual experience of Millwall home games now? I don’t follow football at all really, but recall lots of coverage over the years of hooliganism / violence at Millwall. That’s my biggest concern, the next would be anti social behaviour, like pp’s have mentioned. I imagine the fans walking to the ground would be fine, the noise of the actual games wouldn’t bother me (I don’t think so anyway) but after the game is my concern. The fans having consumed a lot of alcohol…. Colleague said the millwall fans and their opposing team fans are kept apart and not able to mix. I have absolutely no idea how they manage that!! I guess a LOT of police!

It's really rare to have large fights break out at matches nowadays.

The old football firms are all but gone.

I think you could be shooting yourself in the foot by listening to outdated reputations.

By all accounts, this sounds like the perfect family home for you and you've been looking for some time.

How fast do houses sell in the area? If they tend to get snapped up then I'd say go for it and move in a couple of years if you hate it.

At the end of the day we're talking pretty much one match a fortnight through the season. Not much, is it?

bretta · 27/05/2025 19:47

I have a simple philosophy which I find quite useful....compromises are inevitable when buying a house (even if money is no object incidentally) but only compromise on things that will irritate you some days not every day.

Living on a noisy busy road will irritate you every day; living close to a football stadium may irritate you 25 times a year for just a few hours.

XWKD · 27/05/2025 19:52

It wouldn't bother me unless all the roads are closed on a match day. For a 20,000 seater stadium it probably won't be that bad. Living near an 80,000 seater is a different matter.

VenusClapTrap · 27/05/2025 19:54

Our local football stadium has massive lights that are on all night in winter to make the grass grow. The light irritates me, and when I say local, it’s 5 miles away, so hardly on my doorstep. Just another thing to think about. I don’t know if all stadiums do this, mind you.

VenusClapTrap · 27/05/2025 19:55

Oh and I don’t think 6 months is all that long for house hunting. It took us two years. I’m glad we didn’t make some of the compromises we considered during that time. I’d keep looking if I was you.

CrispEater2000 · 27/05/2025 20:03

My uncle lives a couple of streets from a ground that gets 40,000 fans per match. Parking is permit only but it is on-street rather than private driveways. On a matchday he doesn't use his car at all because it's too hard to find a space, even with the permits.

Grandparent lives a little further away from the same ground, but still in the permit area. No more than a mile away. Plenty of parking there but the bigger issue is not being able to visit on a matchday as we don't have a permit to park.

The area around the ground gets so so busy around an hour before and an hour after kick off, you wouldn't want to be driving around in it anyway.

Kelly1969 · 27/05/2025 20:08

Nataliaa · 25/05/2025 22:40

We’ve found a house that in all ways is perfect for us. In terms of price, close to work, size, minimal work needed - we could happily live with the interior, as it is- so no rush to put our stamp on it. No renovations needed. However, it is very close to a football stadium. My DH is saying if I let that one negative sway my decision, we would be turning down our dream family home and as we have been house hunting for 6 months and have not come close to finding any house that ticks so many of our wants, we would regret not going for this one.
My DH says that whilst there may be some disruption on match days, it’s not going to be every single weekend, and therefore minimal.
Am I really being picky, or would this be an issue for others?? Would you happily live near a football stadium?

As others have said, how close and how big is it?
can you visit on a typical match day to get an idea of how much the home is affected.
Does DH support the home team?!

Hoogey · 27/05/2025 20:08

Nataliaa · 25/05/2025 23:38

Hmmm… hadn’t thought of that! Although I wouldn’t know where to park our own car 🙈

On the road. Before it starts !!

EverythingIsComputer · 27/05/2025 20:10

I lived by a ground once, it was while I was renting and looking to buy elsewhere. Generally it was ok, knew when to expect things to get busy but there’s one team known to bring a bit of bother and their fans were really poorly behaved, litter everywhere, rowdy, pissing in the bushes, walking through the grounds of the flats rather than the pavement along the main road. Grim.

Kelly1969 · 27/05/2025 20:15

Nataliaa · 25/05/2025 23:20

It is Millwall, yes! I know it probably doesn’t seem like the area for anyone’s dream home, but it’s genuinely a really lovely house and nowhere else would be closer to where we both work, although of course we never set out to find a house right on the doorstep of work, we expected and hoped for somewhere a short commute. So this was an unexpected find!

The reason it’s unexpected (available) is that it’s close to Millwall!
Doesn’t matter how nice it is, remember Location, Location, Location!
How much more expensive would this house be if it wasn’t near Millwall, probably a lot!

TheCoralMoose · 27/05/2025 20:22

I wouldnt never ever.
I had a former work friend i still keep in touch with who lived near the Etihad stadium in Manchester.
I dont drive but they did.
It was horrendous on not just match days but when they had concerts events too.
Its not the best area in Manchester either.
They lived there for just under four years then decided to move.
It took ages to sell about three years.
Its your decision to make but knowing what happened to my friend i just wouldnt go there.

NotMeNoNo · 27/05/2025 20:23

I came on to say it's fine really, you just plan round it and it's quite nice to hear the cheering. Here in south Nottingham all 3 sports grounds are close together so most weekends have a match. Millwall is another matter! But IME many of these places are fine in day to day life despite their reputation. In London many people have to trade some kind of railway/sports ground/ tourist attraction/flight path to get a bit of extra space and they still manage to get on ok.

Babycatsarenice · 27/05/2025 20:25

I lived near the a very large stadium and had the wrong coloured car, had my windows smashed in a few times then decided to move away (and get a garage). If you are on a route they all walk past on the way home you might have the same issue.

CrochetQueeen · 27/05/2025 20:27

I used to live a few hundred metres from a small team ground and grew up near a (then) premier league team. I loved it really, the noise on a match day and the atmosphere. I'm not a football fan but it's quite nice being near a stadium. I would say though you're likely to get your drive blocked/people asking to park there etc if very close and other disruption but wouldn't rule it out. We never had parking or even on street parking because of yellow lines so wasn't an issue for us

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