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Binge Drinking

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PicturePuzzle · 25/05/2025 11:39

I think I might have a problem with binge drinking. There's also alcoholism in my immediate family. I definitely need to reset my tolerance. I'm 45, lead a busy life, exercise a lot.

Not a huge drinker as such, as in I would never drink at home during the week. I'd rather have tea than wine will sitting down at night. Don't see the point in a few drinks as I still feel it the following day and it bothers my sleep. It's the way I drink that bothers me.

About once a week I will drink some wine/fizz, could drink two bottles easily, I always had a great tolerance for fizz. I wouldn't feel great the following day but I'd get up, I'd just need a nap during the day. I'd be mad to eat carbs.

I really look forward to a glass of fizz, as in the whole day I'd look forward to it. I'm more of a social/situational drinker. If the sun is out, if I meet friends, Friday evening (this I think is from when I was working in the city and Friday evening drinks was a thing), watching sport. Not too interested in having wine with food.

I have a lot going on in my personal life, not very happy and I guess this is driving me taking time out of life so to speak.

I don't get aggressive, fall over, argue with anyone, I don't bother my family. However I've noticed my daughter who is 10 doesn't like it. All I want is fun, chat and some music. I do however have less control. I also hate the following day. I factor in the hangover as part of the drinking, so an evening drinking and not feeling good the following day.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I want to reset my tolerance, change the psychology of why/when I drink. Being able to drink 2+ bottles of fizz is not ok on my body. I'd also be afraid this could escalate.

I'm not being unreasonable am I, being worried about this?

OP posts:
ToKittyornottoKitty · 25/05/2025 11:41

Why are you drunk in front of your daughter? No child should have to regularly deal with a drunk parent. Whether you stop drinking or reduce it, don’t get drunk around your child ever.

Calmdownpeople · 25/05/2025 11:41

OP two bottles of fizz every week at once is a problem. Craving alcohol is a problem. These aren’t normal behaviours. If your 10 year old sees it you are also doing it in front of her which isn’t okay. I strongly suggest you reach out to a support group (AA?) and others can advise but yes this is a problem.

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