Where to start....
Im in a 13 year relationship. We have an 11 yr old DS soon to be 12.
It wasnt easy from the start. We live together as partners.He owns the house ,so its in his name . We are engaged but it will never be more than that (he never wants to marry)
He said it was best that i bacame a full time mum. As i work part time and he earns good money, I agreed. It worked. I decided to get a partime job -term time only, once our son started school DS is starting secondary school sept.so I can now be more flexible with work, as DS will be able to go to school on his own Sorry for long winded explanation l, but want you to have background story of my life
Cut to last week. My DP went on a trip to finland .i have never felt this was my home. I told him I wanted to put my mark on it. He said "go for it". Im not stopping you. So while he was away. I painted the kitchen. Also the bathroom ceiling which has been peeling for a year. He came home livid. What hasnt helped is DS told him I told him when he calls , to keep it a secret. This unnerved him. He cant stand secrets . Hes now told me to look for a flat. I thought he was joking but no . He has lack of trust. He told me to leave him alone to calm down.
We haven't had the best relationship. But i think hes gone too far.
In my defence. I have to work round DS. So cant earn good money. He gives me money on top of what I earn as its not a lot as well as paying his mortgage and bills .so hes a top earner . Without my DS im nothing
Was I wrong to paint the kitchen ?
Currently sitting in a garden centre car park in tears