Arranging to meet another woman

[Pharmgirl101]

DH went out last night to the pub with friends. When he came home later than usual his top was covered in foundation. I looked at his phone. Yes I know but I was a few glasses of wine deep and he was acting weird. Anyways, found messages from a woman he worked with "hey what you up to" chat quickly progressed to you out tonight? to him suggesting he come meet her and her friend in the local pub as his friends were going home. AIBU to be raging about this? When confronted this morning he is saying oh she's just an old work friend, nothing happened etc. What would you do?

How did his top manage to get covered in foundation if nothing happened?

What do you mean by covered?

Was it all over different parts of it, or in a part where it could've rubbed off after a 'greeting hug'?

What did he say about all that foundation in his shirt?

I’d be cross that he met up with two women as well, and that an old (female) workmate was randomly messaging him late at night.

Also, how did foundation get all over his clothes?

Yes he claimed it was a hug and it must have rubbed off was all down his sleeve. To be clear I think this pissed me off too. He isn't an affectionate guy. He doesn't randomly hug or kiss me. Our sex life is pretty much non existent. I have brought this up many times over the years and told him I do not want to live in a sexless marriage.

Sorry OP, if I were in your position, I'd be suspicious too. The problems in your marriage need to be confronted and you need to decide if you are willing to carry on in what sounds like a loveless union.

Just end it. He isn’t interested in your relationship and he’s seeing someone else. It’s that simple.