I have worked in a company for 3 years. I have worked my way up to assistant manager, there is another assistant manager, a manager then my director (just to give some idea of the dynamics).
For two years my director has done nothing but belittle, bully and sexually harass me. He criticises how I work, tells me I don’t do enough, questions everything I do even though I literally bend over backwards for the company.
He has made vile comments about my child, about my family, he has grabbed my bum, grabbed his crotch in front of me. Asked me inappropriate questions about my sex life, pressed his self against me and even went as far as standing in his boxer shorts in his office when he knew I was upstairs (apparently this was accidental as he was getting changed- but there is a toilet a few steps along the corridor).
I raised a complaint with him a few months ago. He cried and begged me not to report him. Said things would be better.
Since then the sexual stuff has lessened and I felt we were starting to get on and he could see what I was doing. Fast forward too this week and he has been VILE. He has criticised everything I’ve done, called me thick and basically spoke to me like I’m a bit of shit on his shoe.
I walked out of work in the middle of my shit and he just said “bye” even though he could see I was in tears.
My question is now, do I report him? What do I do? I feel like any complaint I make about him will be thrown out because I have tried to prove myself so much to him in the last few months in the fear of everything starting up again. I have massive anxiety about going back on Monday and I really don’t want to do it. Colleagues have suggested going on the sick but I don’t get sick pay. Any advice would be a massive help. Thank you x