Hi all, I’ve found some messages on his phone, he is an online gamer for over 18 years and has played loads of different games some for years. I don’t like online games with chat so never felt to join.
He went toilet and left phone in the kitchen on the side charging. A notification come through but had a strange sound so I looked over and it a woman on a chat app I never knew he had asking if he had a great day thinking of her.
He run in before I could even touch the phone and asked me why I was looking I never have before in 23 years. I went to say we need to talk when the children are in bed, he just started shouting and left. Now he has come home saying there’s no way you never see that because I’ve never used it and shown me the app but there not one message is on it.
He said I need help as I’m losing it and went to bed.
I looked at his apps and his had hundred chat apps telegram line… the list is endless and games. All accounts I found were deleted like new accounts or cleared of chats and friends in games his has played for over 6 years some longer. I found one game and every friend is a girl and I found a chat in an app and l asked him what it was he was offering!
He reply was nothing maybe to chat and that he thinks he should get points for not going back to talk weeks later. His never been so cold and uncaring like he done nothing when I see the proof what was I meant to take a picture of it incase he decides to lie. 23 years and he’s now trying to send me crazy, I’ve never thought he would cheat and have never even look at his phone he had my full trust.
there loads more to the message but shows names.
Sorry I’m over the place at the moment. Had family passing and two life changing health problems diagnosed since Monday I just don’t know what to do think or believe.
do you think he left to delete everything and has been cheating for the 18 years
or
am I mad like his saying.