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Keir Starmer went to private school

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Asking4afrend · 21/05/2025 07:57

AIBU to be shocked that Keir Starmer went to private school? Talk about biting the hand that feeds you. So he enjoyed an excellent education which increased his social mobility and then wants to bring down the system that helped him, even when they gave him a 100% bursary so that his parents didn’t have to pay the fees?

This is from wiki:

Starmer passed the 11-plus examination and gained entry to Reigate Grammar School, which at the time was a voluntary-aidedselective grammar school.[1][12] The school converted into an independent fee-paying school in 1976, while he was a student. The terms of the conversion were such that his parents were not required to pay for his schooling until he turned 16, and when he reached that point, the school, by now a charity, awarded him a bursary that allowed him to complete his education there without any parental contribution.

I only found out about this today when I was googling the school for another reason and looked up the alumni. What a hypocrite. You didn’t hear about this in the election during all his “my father was a toolmaker” speeches.

Bursary - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bursary

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shiningstar2 · 21/05/2025 11:06

I have nothing against private schools. If I could have afforded to I would have sent my DD to one near me that was far better than the local school. I have enjoyed a teaching career in both the state and private sector. Good luck to anybody who can afford it. However private schools are not charities. They are businesses and therefore I think they should have to pay the same Vat as any other business. There were advantages and disadvantages to working in the private sector, like any other job. During the last recession all of the staff has to accept a 10% cut in pay in order to keep going. That's life. That's business. Staff who couldn't afford this were free to leave for better paid jobs. The rest of us bit the bullet, didn't complain and got on with it. Most of the parents were completely unaware of the staff's loss of pay. How many would have campaigned amongst parents to up the fees to cover it if they had known. Very few ...and of course many struggled to afford the fees as they were and were, naturally, invested in keeping the school going by any means necessary. My very rambling point is this. If you can afford private school great but the system sector will not crumble if lots of formerly private pupils join state ranks. They will fill up empty seats and bring more money into the school. Parents in private schools are not doing the state a favour, they are, quite rightly in my view, paying to do what is best for their own kids, just like people do if they can afford it with private medicine. In fact private medicine has a greater case for claiming it helps the state as it does bring down queues a bit.
There is nothing wrong with Starmer. having gone to private school, however that came about . and in any event it was his parents decision not his. There is also nothing wrong with him bringing the taxing of private schools into line with other businesses. They've had a long run with charity status when they are businesses not charities. I do think that parents of pupils in private schools need to accept this and if they can afford it pay and if not go to state, just like teachers like me did in the last recession.

HPFA · 21/05/2025 11:06

Clavinova · 21/05/2025 10:35

Of course it's relevant - the sixth form demanded fees or a bursary/scholarship. Did your partner attend sixth form elsewhere?

Yes. Parents moved area and he transferred to the grammar school there - which is now a comprehensive.

Araminta1003 · 21/05/2025 11:07

I mean judging by what went on in Russia and China back in the good old Socialism days, the more hypocrisy and one rule for them (vs everyone else), the better. So I would say, it is pretty classical Socialist 101 move from Starmer to have one rule for himself and another for everyone else.

thepariscrimefiles · 21/05/2025 11:07

Ramblethroughthebrambles · 21/05/2025 10:49

What a bizarre criticism! The Labour Party has always had people in leadership who were privately educated, since its inception. Experiencing this privilege shaped their views about the unfairness of it and the broader negative impact of private schools on society (despite the benefits for some who attend). Having been privileged doesn't necessarily mean you think it right to vote for policies that perpetuate that privilege for the next generation. I can think of far better reasons to criticize Starmer.

I agree. Clement Attlee, the leader of the most transformative post-war government, was privately educated but brought in many policies to benefit the working class such as the creation of the NHS and the Welfare State and the building of many council houses.

LesserCelandine · 21/05/2025 11:09

PlanetJanette · 21/05/2025 11:02

No, actually, I don't.

In the same way that I don't think rich people who advocate for wealth taxes are hypocrites. If anything, I think people who advocate against the unfairness of systems that benefit them are more likely to be acting out of principle.

It is a lot easier to afford those principles when you have already benefitted from others not having them.

snowmichael · 21/05/2025 11:09

Asking4afrend · 21/05/2025 07:57

AIBU to be shocked that Keir Starmer went to private school? Talk about biting the hand that feeds you. So he enjoyed an excellent education which increased his social mobility and then wants to bring down the system that helped him, even when they gave him a 100% bursary so that his parents didn’t have to pay the fees?

This is from wiki:

Starmer passed the 11-plus examination and gained entry to Reigate Grammar School, which at the time was a voluntary-aidedselective grammar school.[1][12] The school converted into an independent fee-paying school in 1976, while he was a student. The terms of the conversion were such that his parents were not required to pay for his schooling until he turned 16, and when he reached that point, the school, by now a charity, awarded him a bursary that allowed him to complete his education there without any parental contribution.

I only found out about this today when I was googling the school for another reason and looked up the alumni. What a hypocrite. You didn’t hear about this in the election during all his “my father was a toolmaker” speeches.

This is 100% the norm for Labour

Shirley Williams (educated via 11plus scholarship at St Pauls) scrapped the 11plus scholarships

Blair (privately educated at Fettes College via the Assisted |Places scheme) took away the Assisted Places scheme

Diane Abbot (privately and grammar school educated) sent her children to private schools while criticising parents for choosing selective schools

Baroness Jay (privately and grammar school educated) lead the debate on the Lords to abolish grammar schools

Privately educated Kier Starmer slapped VAT on private school fees

Plus ça change, plus c'est la même chose

(And his father was not a toolmaker, he was the owner of a toolmaking factory)

HPFA · 21/05/2025 11:12

snowmichael · 21/05/2025 11:09

This is 100% the norm for Labour

Shirley Williams (educated via 11plus scholarship at St Pauls) scrapped the 11plus scholarships

Blair (privately educated at Fettes College via the Assisted |Places scheme) took away the Assisted Places scheme

Diane Abbot (privately and grammar school educated) sent her children to private schools while criticising parents for choosing selective schools

Baroness Jay (privately and grammar school educated) lead the debate on the Lords to abolish grammar schools

Privately educated Kier Starmer slapped VAT on private school fees

Plus ça change, plus c'est la même chose

(And his father was not a toolmaker, he was the owner of a toolmaking factory)

Edited

Other than Diane Abbott all those choices were made FOR children rather than by them.

Clavinova · 21/05/2025 11:12

PlanetJanette · 21/05/2025 11:05

What's that got to do with the quality of its education?

There wasn't some lightswitch moment when this school went from being a rubbish school to a high quality one. He was admitted to a state school and he stayed at that school as a non-fee paying student for his duration.

And even if he hadn't, people who have benefitted from private education are allowed to believe that its users don't need a taxpayer subsidy.

What's that got to do with the quality of its education?

Well the fees obviously helped with the quality of education (or are you claiming it doesn't?) and the cultural capital of mixing with a more middle class cohort.

Shambles123 · 21/05/2025 11:13

thepariscrimefiles · 21/05/2025 11:07

I agree. Clement Attlee, the leader of the most transformative post-war government, was privately educated but brought in many policies to benefit the working class such as the creation of the NHS and the Welfare State and the building of many council houses.

Heh? He didn't attempt to get rid of private education (and academies and home schooling and anything other than a rigid state planned education for kids - oh hi Labour 2025) so his education is not really relevant to the second part of your sentence.

thepariscrimefiles · 21/05/2025 11:13

Araminta1003 · 21/05/2025 11:07

I mean judging by what went on in Russia and China back in the good old Socialism days, the more hypocrisy and one rule for them (vs everyone else), the better. So I would say, it is pretty classical Socialist 101 move from Starmer to have one rule for himself and another for everyone else.

You are genuinely comparing Keir Starmer to the leaders of communist Russia and China? That's insane!

Anyway, the vast majority of this Labout cabinet were state educated. I don't know if any of them send their children to private schools, but if they do, they will be paying the VAT charge.

Hoppinggreen · 21/05/2025 11:14

@shiningstar2
A lot of Private schools are not charities.

Serpentstooth · 21/05/2025 11:14

HPFA · 21/05/2025 11:01

They would have had to send him to a secondary modern - you couldn't opt out of the selective system.

You were either "selected" for grammar or secondary modern - there wasn't a third option.

Everyone of the appropriate age sat the 11+. I wasn't aware it was part of the enormous raft of mid year exams at my - state - primary. Wasn't a choice.

Araminta1003 · 21/05/2025 11:17

“Anyway, the vast majority of this Labout cabinet were state educated. I don't know if any of them send their children to private schools, but if they do, they will be paying the VAT charge.”

I am more interested in how many have private tutors for their kids. Better hope none of them are accepting any free private tuition because sooner or later that will come out.

CuriousKangaroo · 21/05/2025 11:17

This has been done to death and explained repeatedly. For years. If you have a specific issues with his policies fine to discuss, but this again? Seriously? So boring, OP.

PlanetJanette · 21/05/2025 11:18

Clavinova · 21/05/2025 11:12

What's that got to do with the quality of its education?

Well the fees obviously helped with the quality of education (or are you claiming it doesn't?) and the cultural capital of mixing with a more middle class cohort.

It was a selective grammar school. It was already plenty middle class.

And fees make a difference but not overnight.

PlanetJanette · 21/05/2025 11:19

Shambles123 · 21/05/2025 11:13

Heh? He didn't attempt to get rid of private education (and academies and home schooling and anything other than a rigid state planned education for kids - oh hi Labour 2025) so his education is not really relevant to the second part of your sentence.

The Government aren't getting rid of private education. They are removing an unnecessary and unjustified taxpayer subsidy for private education.

LesserCelandine · 21/05/2025 11:20

CuriousKangaroo · 21/05/2025 11:17

This has been done to death and explained repeatedly. For years. If you have a specific issues with his policies fine to discuss, but this again? Seriously? So boring, OP.

Yet here you are

LesserCelandine · 21/05/2025 11:21

PlanetJanette · 21/05/2025 11:18

It was a selective grammar school. It was already plenty middle class.

And fees make a difference but not overnight.

So fees don’t make a difference to selective schools? Why then worry about private education?

BIossomtoes · 21/05/2025 11:21

theworldsacrazycrazymess · 21/05/2025 08:03

Most of the cabinet went to private schools.

There are labour MP's who said the bill was necessary and fair, who sent their kids.

Maybe they don't object to private schools after all, just want them to return to the very elite members only club

None of the Cabinet went to private schools. First time ever.

PointsSouth · 21/05/2025 11:21

Asking4afrend · 21/05/2025 08:12

So everything. If he was politically active in his teenage years then he knew what he was doing.

Oh, fer fuck’s sake.

Were your social and political views - not to mention your long-term social and economic strategies for implementing policies on a national scale - fully-formed at sixteen?

Katiesaidthat · 21/05/2025 11:21

ReigateNotSo · 21/05/2025 10:35

@HPFA

Which mobile home park in Reigate was this?

Why did your husband go to the grammar and not the other local schools? Was he particularly gifted? Did his parents seek out the school and encourage him to take the 11+ ?

I don't doubt there were a handful of children in each year at Reigate grammar who came from poorer backgrounds, but were smart and their parents sought out Reigate grammar for them and they passed the 11+. But your implication that Reigate grammar had loads of kids from council estates and the mobile home park is quite frankly just ridiculous.

As I say, I grew up in Reigate and my siblings went to Reigate grammar school. It was always known as a very privileged school to attend and most of the children and young people that went there before, during and after the transition to private were not from council estates or mobile homes. If they were, then I'm sure (unlike Keir) they'd acknowledge how fortunate and privileged they were to attend a school with such opportunity.

Reigate has v few council houses and mobile home parks. Most council houses in Reigate are located in Woodhatch (quite far from Reigate grammar which is located in a v nice, expensive part of the town where houses prices are pretty substantial) which has it's own secondary school (now called Reigate school, formerly called woodhatch school).

Back in the day there was a girls private school (Dunotta) and a boys grammar/later private (Reigate grammar school) and everyone else went to the state schools in the area with woodhatch being seen as the toughest and as catering for the local council houses, and st. Bedes was seen as the best (it was a selective church school). Reigate grammar and Dunotta were known as 'snobby' by the kids, even those at st bedes. I doubt v much a rough council kid would want to go to Reigate grammar.

I am just not sure I fully believe your posts @HPFA.

Edited

Why not? My mum is from Redhill and passed her 11+ encouraged by her teachers. My grandparents couldn´t afford tuitions or any fancy stuff. My mum attended Reigate County School for Girls, basically the girls´grammar (you left this one off your list). My aunt failed her 11+ and went to Woodhatch. My grandparents were working class, they just happened to believe that education would get their kids places. My mum´s peers were also working class, she is in touch with a few still.

Shambles123 · 21/05/2025 11:21

PlanetJanette · 21/05/2025 11:19

The Government aren't getting rid of private education. They are removing an unnecessary and unjustified taxpayer subsidy for private education.

Subsidy???

Because no VAT? So still a subsidy on private healthcare and umm, GAMBLING to go then??

Private school parents pay tax, not do 'claim' the state education they could, saving £8k per child per year.

Subsidy my arse.

CuriousKangaroo · 21/05/2025 11:22

LesserCelandine · 21/05/2025 11:20

Yet here you are

I clicked on it because I thought perhaps something new had come to light. And yet…

LesserCelandine · 21/05/2025 11:22

PlanetJanette · 21/05/2025 11:19

The Government aren't getting rid of private education. They are removing an unnecessary and unjustified taxpayer subsidy for private education.

So you are saying the default situation is everything MUST be taxed, and there must be justification for not taxing things?

NellieJean · 21/05/2025 11:22

God this is just really, really silly.

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