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To lock my bathroom during renovations in the flat

187 replies

Hocuspoc · 18/05/2025 01:58

The flat has just one bathroom/toilet which has just been refurbished. Considering this is in London, the price of the renovation was extortionate.

Now we have painters and decorators coming in to paint the walls, skirting boards etc.
I really don't want them to use the bath or sink for keeping the tools and washing up.
It still bothers me how much the bathroom renovation has set us back and if someone was now to scratch the bathtub or break a tile I think I'd have a mental breakdown.
I want them to use the kitchen sink instead, or to set up some buckets on the kitchen floor - whatever they can come up with - just to stay away from the bloody bathroom.
I am tempted to lock the bathroom to prevent any damage or soiling.

And I feel this is horrible - it is as if I don't want them to use the loo or something (and it is not about that at all).
But then, the guys who did the bathroom had nowhere to go for 10 days while renovating it - so this is not an impossible set up.

I feel I am being unreasonable but honestly with the prices the contractors are charging at the moment I could not care less - they can certainly afford a quick coffee in a nearby cafe and use the loo there.
Thoughts.

OP posts:
Treesandsheepeverywhere · 20/05/2025 10:34

Totally get you with the new bathroom. It's easy to say relax but unfortunately, when it's damaged, most deny any knowledge.

A friend had her bath chirped by workmen, who claimed it was like that when they got there.

Another had someone piss in an unused leftover tin of paint, despite providing a portaloo and endless refreshments.
Guess they felt they should have been allowed to use the house loo.
Only found out after they'd left and been paid.

There are loads of respectful people from all professions, but unfortunately there are some who just don't care.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 20/05/2025 10:35

On a seperate note, how are you finding your T. C loo @MouseMama , Thinking of getting one but balking at the costs.

Oldwmn · 20/05/2025 12:09

I have all the posts on this & I am baffled as to why you (OP) have posted this at all. You obviously know what you want to do so just do it.

Hope that helps.

Oldwmn · 20/05/2025 12:10

Oldwmn · 20/05/2025 12:09

I have all the posts on this & I am baffled as to why you (OP) have posted this at all. You obviously know what you want to do so just do it.

Hope that helps.

*I have read (doh!)

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 20/05/2025 12:25

This thread is bonkers. My builders/tradesmen were absolute gents(they'd make their mothers proud).

Maybe people should choose their tradesmen more wisely, or speak to/treat them like their human beings. Some of the comments about them on here, no wonder they acted like they did.

minnienono · 20/05/2025 12:55

If you don’t want them to use the bathroom you need to provide a portaloo, the contractor will make the arrangements but it will be on your invoice as an extra. It is not appropriate to expect them to go to a cafe to use the loo! I’ve never had a builder use the bath for cleaning brushes etc, they use the kitchen sink

Gs43 · 20/05/2025 14:45

Why not simply give them guidelines?
If they can’t use your toilet where will they go?

Justhere65 · 20/05/2025 15:19

Badbadbunny · 20/05/2025 10:31

You can if you tell them upfront that they need to make their own arrangements. But I agree, it's unfair if they're not given advance warning to either cost in a portaloo or think about where else they could go.

Depending on the trade and person, many will be "in and out" all day anyway, going to buy bacon butties, lunches, coffees, etc., or nipping off to the builders merchants to buy things they forgot to bring with them, or off to give a quote or do a small job etc., so they'd be able to go elsewhere, and some working locally to their home go home for lunches, take their dog for a lunchtime walk, etc.

They're not your employees, so there's no "legal" obligation to provide facilities in the same way than if you were their employer. Of course, if they're employees working for a firm, then it's THEIR employers responsibility to put facilities in place!

Like I say, be upfront at the quote stage if "facilities" won't be available and give them the opportunity to plan for it.

We did it with MIL's house a couple of times. Once for a new roof that took two weeks - we were upfront at quote stage with all the prospective roofers who came to quote that they weren't allowed inside for the loo, nor to get water, and that MIL wouldn't be making drinks or snacks. She has dementia and simply couldn't cope with any of that. Most of the roofers who quoted were absolutely fine with it. The firm we choose arranged a portaloo and their workers brought their own drinks/flasks/meals etc. Another time we needed her garden cleared as she'd lost the ability to look after it herself and it had got wild. Again, upfront with the gardeners who said it wasn't a problem as one of their lads lived nearby and they'd just "nip" to his house for the loo and drinks etc.

I think if someone has dementia, it is understandable.

TortolaParadise · 20/05/2025 15:37

BooneyBeautiful · 20/05/2025 00:22

That reminds me of when a handyman friend of mine came round to paint some external cladding.

A few years previous to this I had had mice in the kitchen which seemed to have come in via the open back door. I told him quite clearly to close the back door behind him and not to leave it open. I got home later on in the day only to find him walking down the stairs (think he had gone upstairs to use the loo) with the back door wide open. I asked him why he had left it open and he said it was ok because he was only gone for a few minutes. Like the mice have an accurate concept of time and would only come in once the door had been open for at least ten minutes.......

Yes, people just don't care. The more you ask them not to, the more they show you that they can and will do whatever they like!

BooneyBeautiful · 20/05/2025 17:01

TortolaParadise · 20/05/2025 15:37

Yes, people just don't care. The more you ask them not to, the more they show you that they can and will do whatever they like!

To be fair, he is actually a very dear friend of mine, but I think he just wasn't acknowledging what I was saying. The first time I had mice, I was able to get Pest Control provided by the Council. By the time he came round, the Council were no longer doing pest control, so I would have had to have paid privately. He has never owned a property, so I suspect this sort thing goes right over his head.

DeskJotter · 20/05/2025 18:02

Communitywebbing · 19/05/2025 21:32

I was joking!

Oh, sorry! 😂

Communitywebbing · 20/05/2025 18:22

DeskJotter · 20/05/2025 18:02

Oh, sorry! 😂

That’s OK, I should not assume that my attempts at humour will
come over on social media! There was a serious point amidst the sarcasm but I don’t recommend trying to terrorise tradesmen.

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