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1234a12 · 15/05/2025 20:10

Hi everyone

Just a quick question. I have always been a bit negative about my body feel like i am too big(size 14 for reference and 5'7) my husband knows this and i have recently lost 2 stone. He said before he didnt find me attractive when i was heavier which was fine.

The problem is now i feel a lot better about how i look and when we went to have sex he covered me with a towel. Am i over reacting to this or does that seem like a really bad thing to do like he didnt want to see my body at all?? 😔

Please help

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RentalWoesNotFun · 16/05/2025 06:09

Not sure what’s going on in his head. I think I’d have to speak to him and ask him if he finds me unattractive at my current weight.

If it’s just he likes the idea of a “naughty” half clothed role play shag fine. ( I had an ex that liked stockings and suspenders. Wasn’t bothered about the rest of me. Fine. Whatever).

If he doesn’t find you attractive and he’s actively hiding bits of you that doesnt bode well. I wouldn’t be up for being hidden. You want me as a package or you don’t. I won’t be used as just a hole if he doesn’t fancy me as a whole unit.

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