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To think I should have waited to speak to the female doctor?

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purpletablet · 14/05/2025 09:46

I’ve been experiencing pain in my right ovary since Monday. It’s not unusual for me to experience ovulation pain but it usually only lasts about a day. This time it has gotten gradually more intense and it woke me up during the night last night and was radiating into my back and down my leg.

I called the doctors this morning and explained to the receptionist and she said she didn’t have a female doctor available. I said that was fine and I was happy to speak to a male doctor.

He just called me there and after I explained my symptoms he told me that ovarian pain is not really a “recognised phenomena” and it’s much more likely that I’m suffering with bowel colic and that I should take some buscopan. I tried telling him that I get ovarian pain every month when I ovulate and I can tell the pain was coming from my ovary but he pretty much said he understands what I’m saying but I’m wrong 🙃

Thankfully I have a long awaited gynaecology appointment at the hospital next week but my goodness. Nothing like a man telling you your ovary pain doesn’t exist 🤣

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purpletablet · 28/05/2025 11:43

Just a quick update. I had my gynaecology appointment yesterday. The referral was originally made by my GP several months ago due to extreme PMS symptoms, and my case is a bit more complex because of a growth on my liver.

The doctor was helpful regarding the PMS side of things. He’s started me on the mini pill to see if it helps and will review me again in six months.

I did mention the ovary pain I’ve been experiencing recently, but he said he wanted to focus on the original reason for the referral. He noted that I had a scan in 2022 that didn’t show anything concerning, and advised me to monitor the pain. If it doesn’t improve, he recommended going back to the GP for a new referral. At no point did he suggest that my ovary pain didn’t exist 😅

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