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To ask if it’s too much to see my casual partner?

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Lsirens · 13/05/2025 21:43

…3 times in 8 days?

it’s a bit of talking but mainly sex. We have talked and it’s very clearly discussed that he is not looking for a relationship and I’m still dating but he is fulfilling my sexual desires.

Don’t get me wrong, I like him and he likes me but we had a pretty frank conversation that we are not looking for the same things. The sexual desire is intense though and we have fun. We talk about my dates and stuff so it’s more like friends/ acquaintances with benefits

I would like to suggest to see him again for a 3rd time in one week. (8 days to be specific) Is that too much? He initiated the first two really (both which I was very up for and had a good time )

some of my friends barely see the guys they are actually dating once a week and I don’t want it to come across as that it’s shifting to a more romantic side.

Id like to see him, as I want more sex and my following 10 days will be busy/Ill be on my period

What do you all think?

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Robertplantgoddess · 13/05/2025 21:46

I guess go for it if it's really what you want but I get the feeling it may be precluding you from dating what could be the slightly more relationship based sex

Lsirens · 13/05/2025 21:51

@Robertplantgoddess , yes I know and I agree…. But it’s also exciting and fun at the moment and I don’t mind taking a short break from dating. I do defo want a relationship but the sex is soo good and I’m so busy with other stuff… dating has become a bit of a chore recently 😒

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