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New job - already fed up with unhealthy ‘working lunches‘

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AliceSeal · 13/05/2025 18:25

I’ve been in my new job since February and in the main really enjoy it. However, we have monthly ‘planning meetings’ which so far are always scheduled to run through lunch (usually 11-3) and the bosses arrange for a lunch to be provided. Last month, it was a job lot of Greggs ‘beige’ - sausage rolls etc, and today it was stacks of dominoes which everyone could pile in to.

I haven’t said anything so far as I don’t want to appear ungrateful, and the majority of my colleagues seemed ecstatic with these choices, but as someone who is quite big on health and fitness, this is really irritating. We get a 5-10
minute break from this at most which isn’t enough time for me to do much more than go to the loo (big office with microwave facilities downstairs and always a queue over lunch).

Would you ask to get a longer break so I can have my own lunch? I’m just conscious this will delay the meeting for everyone else so very wary of asking.

OP posts:
Lalalalalalalalalalaoohoohwee · 18/05/2025 12:41

I can't believe you really couldn't think of a sensible solution to this without mumsnet....it's once a month. Just take in a salad or sandwich on that day.....seriously 😣

Trillie · 18/05/2025 13:17

Have you ever heard of a packed lunch? Say you are trying out being vegan if you are self conscious about it.

Olive123456 · 18/05/2025 14:44

AliceSeal · 13/05/2025 18:32

I don’t really like cold lunches, I meal prep and have something which fits my macros for tracking too so eating junk isn’t really an option.

Take a flask of soup then

Tessiebear2023 · 18/05/2025 14:52

Cherrytree86 · 18/05/2025 11:40

Why are people still commenting when the OP was booted off ages ago?? 🤣

Sharing views, obvs. Op is irrelevant now.

Cherrytree86 · 18/05/2025 17:14

Tessiebear2023 · 18/05/2025 14:52

Sharing views, obvs. Op is irrelevant now.

@Tessiebear2023

surely the only view is that Op is a prick and she should bring in a salad or a sandwich on that one day of the month if she doesn’t want pizza or sausage rolls. Like what else more can there be than that??

Tessiebear2023 · 18/05/2025 17:47

Cherrytree86 · 18/05/2025 17:14

@Tessiebear2023

surely the only view is that Op is a prick and she should bring in a salad or a sandwich on that one day of the month if she doesn’t want pizza or sausage rolls. Like what else more can there be than that??

What is this, the conversation police? 😂

smithsgj · 18/05/2025 17:48

RareGoalsVerge · 13/05/2025 18:29

I'd be taking in a box of salad. This isn't rocket science.

A box of rocket.

HiEarthlings · 18/05/2025 17:50

AliceSeal · 13/05/2025 18:57

Not at all, I like my colleagues, regardless of whether some are a bit on the podgier side!

Wow. Just. Wow.

BluesBird19764 · 18/05/2025 21:29

This thread is ridiculous even for MN. It this is a genuine AIBU then you need to grow up. If, as you claim you are a successful exec then I would suggest getting a grip and speaking up for yourself. Though i can’t imagine any high end firm ordering in Greggs? Still I’m sure you aren’t just a wum looking for attention and this is a super serious (first world) issue for you.

Lilywc · 19/05/2025 00:50

Don’t eat it ,
bring your own stuff
say you have a digestion problem

Thalia31 · 19/05/2025 01:44

What does their size have to do with anything you tedious person?

blueshoes · 19/05/2025 02:06

Verbena17 · 13/05/2025 20:59

Sneaking in an exclamation mark after you write 14/16+ defo isn’t ‘respectfully’ 😉

Agree.

And signing off with hun x after a six figure salary is an oxymoron.

LilWoosmum82 · 20/05/2025 09:00

I would either go with the flow and have this one unhealthy lunch a month, which the rest of the team clearly enjoys. Or just make an excuse. Clearly they provide it as trade off to working through lunch

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