I'm a bridesmaid for my sister. She hasn't got a maid of honour so it's me and 2 of her friends as bridesmaids. Her 2 friends aren't local to her now and they still live near her uni town. My sister is planning on rent a place or hotel stay near her uni town (5-6 hours drive from hometown) over a weekend for her main hen do. I cant drive and due to work and an unwell child I can't go to the weekend hen party. She asked me to organise another hen do in our hometown but on a smaller scale and to accommodate a wider range of ages (12-70 years) for about 10 people. Budget is a bit tight and obviously we are covering for her too. I found a lovely afternoon tea place and thought of doing some age appropriate sit down games like romance film emoji quiz, would she rather and who knows the bride best sort of ones. Nothing too loud for the environment. I've sorted decorations and a little gift for the bride. We only get 2 hours at the afternoon tea place.
Is that all good enough? I know its not her main hen party but it doesn't feel like I've made much effort. I can't plan to go out after because of my childs night time care (it needs both myself and my DH). And she is already having that type of hen party in her uni town.
I'm not sure why I'm even stressing so much over it. Should I be?!