Name changed as I'm on here a lot and a bit paranoid!
Family member and I have both had babies recently. Different genders and new genders to us. So did a clothes swap of some baby bits. Both categorically said we didn't want anything back as last babies.
My little one is growing out of the smaller stuff so I was about to give it away but just thought I'd double check she didn't want it back. Anyway it turns out she does as she has potentially not completely ruled out another baby. Which is fine, neither have we completely and people are entitled to change their mind etc.
But AIBU to be a tiny irritated though as a) None of her stuff is labelled so I'm going to have to try and guess which is hers and I can probably only pick out about half of it.
b) Some of it was frankly quite tatty and I might have potentially already chucked some of it. The other stuff is fine but nothing that special and all pretty well worn.
I get that newborn clothes are sentimental but in which case why not just keep the ones you really liked- which is what I did. They have lots of space and money so that is not an issue!
I am going to give back what I think is hers but AIBU to be mildly annoyed?