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GP charging for blue badge letter - disabled child

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GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 10:58

Just checking if this is usual practice to be charged for a GP to write a supporting letter for a blue badge application for a disabled child?

My child is 5, has profound learning difficulties and ASD. Is non verbal and attends specialist school. Displays many challenging behaviours and has no sense of danger. Regularly refuses to walk and can also try to run into the road etc.

Our local authority are notoriously difficult in giving out blue badges and I was advised by his specialist school to get a supporting letter from the GP to apply for a blue badge as they’ve seen first hand how dangerous he is in a car park.

Our GP had an appt with him and has agreed to write the letter. However they have charged £40 for this.

Is this standard? It seems excessive, it’s not as though we’ve asked for a letter to support us going on holiday or something. This is for a disabled child!

I suppose I will pay it if necessary but wanted to check if this was the norm.

Thanks

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Soontobe60 · 12/05/2025 17:49

ButteredRadishes1 · 12/05/2025 15:23

Who else is going to do it? Who's got the medical knowledge and access to the records. Who else can verify, that's right, GP.

Consultants

Gundogday · 12/05/2025 18:08

Soontobe60 · 12/05/2025 17:49

Consultants

Consultants don’t details of all the appointments that have occurred in a gp surgery.

I a look so think that people kg e need to change their mindset regarding gps. Ie. No longer thinking it as

gp = nhs

But think of it it as

gp = nhs services (healthcare) + non nhs services (letters, insurance Information etc)

HornungTheHelpful · 12/05/2025 18:11

PhilippaGeorgiou · 12/05/2025 15:47

Oh they most certainly have been nasty. The OP asked a simple question, was given an answer and accepted it. And then in came everyone else swooping with the comments about "that is what benefits are for" like usual. And I didn't say sympathy - I said empathy. It is really hard to get your head around the maze of who does what and how disability entitlements work, and that is before you factor in struggling with a loved person who isn't coping with the world around them, a society that seems to delight in claiming that disablity is a "racket" and all the rest. Five pages in (and I won't be reading the next pages because it will just be more of the same) and there are still "it’s still work for the GP and why should it be free" comments. Many people don't know about or understand the relationship between GP's and the NHS. That doesn't make them stupid.

I also think there’s plenty of empathy. But many, like I, do not accept that shock at not getting something for free is reasonable.

GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 18:12

Gundogday · 12/05/2025 18:08

Consultants don’t details of all the appointments that have occurred in a gp surgery.

I a look so think that people kg e need to change their mindset regarding gps. Ie. No longer thinking it as

gp = nhs

But think of it it as

gp = nhs services (healthcare) + non nhs services (letters, insurance Information etc)

Yes - I genuinely didn’t realise this. I suppose I thought they must be paid to provide services by the NHS and thought they wouldn’t have given me an appt to facilitate a letter if they charged for the service.

To me it seems like something that should be covered even though it isn’t and many people clearly don’t think it should be.

Good to get the clarification though.

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GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 18:14

I’m perfectly prepared to pay for things that aren’t covered by the NHS eg we paid for my son to have the chicken pox vaccination as he simply wouldn’t be able to deal with getting the chicken pox as it would be a sensory overload for him.

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Cynic17 · 12/05/2025 18:15

Completely normal. A GP is contracted to provide healthcare, not write letters.
This has been a standard charge for decades.

GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 18:21

Glitchymn1 · 12/05/2025 13:59

The G.P will more than likely charge. I’m
interested in why your LA needs a letter though, the PIP award and an explanation from you should be enough. It’s overkill.

I work for an LA (fraud).

Our LA is notorious for turning them down and our specialist school suggested that we get a GP’s letter to help our case. I duly did - hence the issue.

To be honest, I was reluctant to get one as I felt that given that he can walk a bit like we didn’t really need one. Hearing from his specialist teacher that he absolutely does was a feeling like someone finally understood how hard it all is.

seeing the replies on here however, I’m fully expecting to be challenged should we ever use a disabled bay if we get a badge.

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GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 18:21

Cynic17 · 12/05/2025 18:15

Completely normal. A GP is contracted to provide healthcare, not write letters.
This has been a standard charge for decades.

Thanks, good thing you came along 7 pages later.

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LoveTKO · 12/05/2025 18:22

You shouldn’t be shocked. It’s an additional ask on top of all the clinical work the GP has to do in their very busy day. It’s time consuming.

Hobnobswantshernameback · 12/05/2025 18:54

https://www.scope.org.uk/campaigns/extra-costs/disability-price-tag-2023

please could some of the rampant ableism in this thread be counteracted
please read this and understand the huge cost implications that people face when they have disabilities
And no disability benefits don't touch the sides
And yes having a disability bring a huge cost penalty

Disability Price Tag 2023: the extra cost of disability | Disability charity Scope UK

Our latest research shows the extra costs disabled households face.

https://www.scope.org.uk/campaigns/extra-costs/disability-price-tag-2023

GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 19:01

@Hobnobswantshernameback thank you for sharing that.

I doubt it will do anything though - there’s so many people around who absolutely hate anyone with disabilities and anyone who needs extra help.

There was a post about a priority pass at Disneyland on here last week that was awful. So many people saying it was unfair disabled people get “to jump the queue” and about all the extra unfair benefits they get like blue badges and discounted parking.

It really is a race to the bottom

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Hobnobswantshernameback · 12/05/2025 19:03

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Birdsongsinging · 12/05/2025 19:05

Mareleine · 12/05/2025 11:30

Well you're not supposed to be in profit at the end of the payments so no need to make shitty comments to posters pointing out the obvious, the payments are there to help towards these sort of expenses. TBH you are coming across badly in this thread.

I think she is coming across as exhausted and frustrated by the constant fight and battle it is for her and her child

GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 19:05

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Well at least this made me smile!

Good to know there’s decent people with empathy around.

Quite scary how many don’t though

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Birdsongsinging · 12/05/2025 19:06

GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 19:01

@Hobnobswantshernameback thank you for sharing that.

I doubt it will do anything though - there’s so many people around who absolutely hate anyone with disabilities and anyone who needs extra help.

There was a post about a priority pass at Disneyland on here last week that was awful. So many people saying it was unfair disabled people get “to jump the queue” and about all the extra unfair benefits they get like blue badges and discounted parking.

It really is a race to the bottom

That sounds awful.

wizzywig · 12/05/2025 19:06

Hope you get your blue badge op x

GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 19:09

Birdsongsinging · 12/05/2025 19:06

That sounds awful.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5320973-theme-park-queue-jumping-for-dlp?page=1

here you go - prepare to be depressed.

Some person wanted to hire a random with a disability to accompany their family for the day so they could skip all the queues.

It then descended into a benefits bashing thread of nastiness

Theme park queue jumping for DLP | Mumsnet

Probably the wrong place to ask this but... My DP wants us to employ a [[https://sites.google.com/view/queue-jump-with-mick/home theme park queue jum...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5320973-theme-park-queue-jumping-for-dlp?page=1

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qbk9 · 12/05/2025 19:15

It’s a shame that you had to pay for this letter. Ideally, it would have been free. Unfortunately lots of people are getting shafted, and that includes GPs, which is why they’ve had to charge you. I remember a GP on here posting a bank statement for her practice with a £10k overdraft balance.

whippy1981 · 12/05/2025 19:40

GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 19:01

@Hobnobswantshernameback thank you for sharing that.

I doubt it will do anything though - there’s so many people around who absolutely hate anyone with disabilities and anyone who needs extra help.

There was a post about a priority pass at Disneyland on here last week that was awful. So many people saying it was unfair disabled people get “to jump the queue” and about all the extra unfair benefits they get like blue badges and discounted parking.

It really is a race to the bottom

Who on this thread has shown they hate people with disabilities?
Can you link me to them please?

ItsStillWork · 12/05/2025 19:48

I can’t understand why the blue badge rules are not the same for every council. My council gives them out like sweets, it’s stupidly easy to get one, yet others make you jump through hoops.

I don’t believe GPs should do the letters for free, but it’s very wrong that other evidence you have isn’t sufficient enough and you have to pay for this to be done.

whippy1981 · 12/05/2025 19:48

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Hobnobswantshernameback · 12/05/2025 19:52

So I am deleted for pointing out how horrible it is on here generally at the minute but som vile ableism allowed to stand
speaks volumes

GPlettercharge · 12/05/2025 19:52

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Why are you still here?

You been asked to go away and leave my thread.

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NoSoupForU · 12/05/2025 19:52

The DLA that you receive for your son's disability is specifically provided to help cover the extra costs incurred as a result of disability, such as this letter.

Letters, forms etc aren't part of the standard NHS provision and GPs can't recover the cost from the NHS. Therefore it is absolutely right that they charge for it.

I've edited to add that I'm sorry everything is such a battle, and I don't mean for my tone to come across as harsh. It's just one of those quite black and white scenarios for the surgery.

whippy1981 · 12/05/2025 19:53

Hobnobswantshernameback · 12/05/2025 19:52

So I am deleted for pointing out how horrible it is on here generally at the minute but som vile ableism allowed to stand
speaks volumes

No you were deleted for calling people cunts for disagreeing with the OP.

Ableism is not ok nor is calling people who disagree with people cunts. Speaks volumes that you think it is ok to call anyone who disagrees and expects to be paid for a job as a cunt.

So you support exploitation and anyone who says it workers should be paid for the work they do is a cunt. Abhorrent.