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Just realised child benefit has stopped years ago! What can I do to get this paid back?

123 replies

METR0NOMY · 12/05/2025 09:39

Two kids 19 and 16. We used to get child benefit but just realised it hasn’t been paid for ages. I know we don’t get it for the 19 year old but we should still get it for the 16 year old. I can’t even find the last time it was paid on my bank account, it could be years. Why would it have stopped?

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AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 12/05/2025 13:00

BB3000 · 12/05/2025 12:35

Can you start a new claim for CB when you retire?

Does eligibility just look at income from work and/or pension and ignores any savings or investments?

Child benefit isn’t means tested. It’s just not payable to those earning more than £60k a year.

Needmorelego · 12/05/2025 13:10

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 12/05/2025 12:59

Only in England.

And actually not really in England.
The leaving age is still 16 if you look at the "rules" properly.
(sorry to say it again but it drives me nuts that so many people get it wrong)

saxonyv · 12/05/2025 13:14

Needmorelego · 12/05/2025 09:41

How long ago?
Once they reach 16 you only get it if they stay in full time education - but it's not automatic. You have to tell the child benefit people.
Edit: this might sound rude but if you didn't notice did you really need the money?

Edited

Do you just ring CB when they turn 16?

Gia906 · 12/05/2025 13:15

KidsDoBetter · 12/05/2025 11:22

I’ve had a similar thing where I didn’t notice my third child had dropped off and I don’t know why. I’ve noticed then and thought I might only get 3 months back. But I lonely guy on phone has referred it to some kind of internal appeal so I’m hopeful.

I get that I didn’t notice but bottom line is I qualify in terms of income and have paid lots and lots of tax over the years, so I wouldn’t listen to those kinds of posts here. Try and get it back.

I agree. I don’t receive CB but I know many who have only ever saved every penny of it so I think it’s unfair that the OP is getting so many “Well, did you really need it?” comments. Of course I appreciate these people I know don’t reflect the many who absolutely need it every month!

Hope you can get it sorted OP and that things improve.

Needmorelego · 12/05/2025 13:25

saxonyv · 12/05/2025 13:14

Do you just ring CB when they turn 16?

I had a letter.
I think I just had to scan the QR code on it and it takes you to the bit where you essentially just tick the relevant box.
I think you do have to do it again for each academic year your child stays in school up until the academic year they turn 19 (if they do the extra year) but I am not 100% sure on that.

rosemarble · 12/05/2025 13:45

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 12/05/2025 13:00

Child benefit isn’t means tested. It’s just not payable to those earning more than £60k a year.

That's not right either.
Anyone with eligible children/young people can claim, but once you earn over 60K HICBC kicks in. You can choose to opt out of claiming CB at any point.

Twillywoowooo · 12/05/2025 13:46

Needmorelego · 12/05/2025 13:25

I had a letter.
I think I just had to scan the QR code on it and it takes you to the bit where you essentially just tick the relevant box.
I think you do have to do it again for each academic year your child stays in school up until the academic year they turn 19 (if they do the extra year) but I am not 100% sure on that.

Same - got this last week for my 16yr old DC. Don’t get it anyway so bit pointless but I suppose circumstances can change.

Yorkshiremum80 · 12/05/2025 13:47

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 12/05/2025 13:00

Child benefit isn’t means tested. It’s just not payable to those earning more than £60k a year.

Thats not true, you are entitled to child benefit if you earn up to 80K (adjusted net income) per year However if you earn between 60K and 80K (adjusted net income) you are not entitled to all of it and have to do a tax return and pay some back. I think you can opt out of payments sot you don't need to do the tax return but I am not sure how that works if you are entitled to keep some.

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 12/05/2025 13:48

The majority of people aren’t earning £60k+ though. There is no means testing in the true sense of the word (as in checking your income before agreeing to pay it).

BB3000 · 12/05/2025 13:49

rosemarble · 12/05/2025 13:45

That's not right either.
Anyone with eligible children/young people can claim, but once you earn over 60K HICBC kicks in. You can choose to opt out of claiming CB at any point.

I assume you can also start a claim at any point. I earn way over the limit at the moment so have never claimed it. I’ll be retiring when DS is still only about 9 or 10 and then living off savings/investments until I can draw on my company pension. Can I start a claim then?

Yorkshiremum80 · 12/05/2025 13:59

@AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti but your comment was not correct, you are still entitled to Child Benefit if earning 60K or more up to 80K, just not 100% of it

rosemarble · 12/05/2025 13:59

BB3000 · 12/05/2025 13:49

I assume you can also start a claim at any point. I earn way over the limit at the moment so have never claimed it. I’ll be retiring when DS is still only about 9 or 10 and then living off savings/investments until I can draw on my company pension. Can I start a claim then?

Try Google.

BB3000 · 12/05/2025 14:08

rosemarble · 12/05/2025 13:59

Try Google.

Google is actually not that helpful when looking for info about child stuff if you are drawing a pension. All it talks about is people getting free pension credits which is irrelevant to me.

There are loads of obscure restrictions. You can’t claim 20% tax free childcare if you are drawing a pension for example.

Needmorelego · 12/05/2025 14:09

@BB3000 gov.uk is probably your best starting point.

AngelicKaty · 12/05/2025 14:12

METR0NOMY · 12/05/2025 10:57

So. It stopped when she went into sixth form. It was a stressful time for our family due to her sister going into hospital so I possibly forgot to send the form. We were okay for money but husband just lost his job hence me going through finances now, sister is still in hospital.
they have backdated theee months and said to write to them to ask but probably can’t be backdated

Definitely write to HMRC explaining how you missed the fact that it had stopped and hence why you think it should be back-dated to that date (not just three months). If they refuse to back-date it more than three months, you can make a Mandatory Reconsideration Request (MRR) within one month of their decision letter and if they stand by their original decision you can make an appeal to the First Tier Tribunal (FTT). See here for more info: https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/benefits/child-benefit/child-benefit-appeals/challenging-a-child-benefit-decision-mandatory-reconsideration/

Challenging a Child Benefit decision - mandatory reconsideration

Ask HMRC to re-think their decision about your Child Benefit. How and when to ask for mandatory reconsideration.

https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/benefits/child-benefit/child-benefit-appeals/challenging-a-child-benefit-decision-mandatory-reconsideration/

dementedpixie · 12/05/2025 14:15

BB3000 · 12/05/2025 13:49

I assume you can also start a claim at any point. I earn way over the limit at the moment so have never claimed it. I’ll be retiring when DS is still only about 9 or 10 and then living off savings/investments until I can draw on my company pension. Can I start a claim then?

You could start a claim right now but opt out of payment if you earn over £80K. Once your salary drops below that you can opt back into getting payments

Comefromaway · 12/05/2025 14:16

Needmorelego · 12/05/2025 13:10

And actually not really in England.
The leaving age is still 16 if you look at the "rules" properly.
(sorry to say it again but it drives me nuts that so many people get it wrong)

Or if you really want to be pedantic it is the last Friday in June of the academic year that you turn 16.

So if your 16th birthday is 1st August 2025 your school leaving age is actually 15 as you officially leave on 27th June.

You are however given up until 31st August for child benefit purposes.

Timberbellfairy · 12/05/2025 14:17

BB3000 · 12/05/2025 13:49

I assume you can also start a claim at any point. I earn way over the limit at the moment so have never claimed it. I’ll be retiring when DS is still only about 9 or 10 and then living off savings/investments until I can draw on my company pension. Can I start a claim then?

You can claim anytime. Just tick the HICBC opt out. Your child will also then receive their National Insurance no when 16.
The QR code is really simple to use.

Comefromaway · 12/05/2025 14:18

saxonyv · 12/05/2025 13:14

Do you just ring CB when they turn 16?

They send you a form out which you have to fill in and return to them. If you don't receive the form (maybe due to a house move or similar) then you can contact them or log onto gov.uk

Needmorelego · 12/05/2025 14:18

@Comefromaway yes indeed.
I know of some 16 year olds who started working on July 1st because there was no longer the requirement to be at school.
Technically anyone with a July or August birthday finishes school at age 15 😂

Whoarethoseguys · 12/05/2025 14:19

GlitteryUnicornSparkles · 12/05/2025 11:03

I understand that used to be the case because not everyone went onto further education after school at 16, CB was paid to the families of those that stayed in full time education post 16 up to a maximum age of 19, hence the need to declare it one way or the other at 16. However, In 2013 the legal mandatory minimum age for leaving education was raised to 17 then again in 2015 to 18. I therefore think its odd that the CB system hasn’t moved forward in line with legislation and that you still have to declare at 16 to get payments when by law your child has to access education until at least 18.

They have to access education or training until they are 18 but that could be an apprenticeship or a job with training. In which case child benefit isn't paid as the students gets a training allowance.

TallulahBetty · 12/05/2025 14:20

orangegato · 12/05/2025 10:37

Imagine if they auto paid it for over 16 year olds, so many don’t continue education it’d be an overpayment nightmare with people getting into debt. If you needed it you’d have noticed…

No longer the case - kids have to be in some for of education/training up to 18 now.

Needmorelego · 12/05/2025 14:22

TallulahBetty · 12/05/2025 14:20

No longer the case - kids have to be in some for of education/training up to 18 now.

Edited

No they don't.
Bangs head that this lie is still being churned out....

TallulahBetty · 12/05/2025 14:24

Needmorelego · 12/05/2025 14:22

No they don't.
Bangs head that this lie is still being churned out....

Yes, they do. SOME FORM of education/training, which can include apprenticeships. SOME FORM.

rosemarble · 12/05/2025 14:24

TallulahBetty · 12/05/2025 14:20

No longer the case - kids have to be in some for of education/training up to 18 now.

Edited

Education or training. In England