We don’t live together.
We had a big falling out and then he went away for 18 days.
He turned on his location for me to see, as he was travelling abroad and asked for me to do the same. We’ve not had each other’s location on before.
In this time I went to visit my friend in another city for a few days, the service was bad. I had no service for a couple of hours so his texts didn’t deliver and he text me saying “have you turned your phone off? You’re exposing yourself”. He apologised after I told him that was unfair and I just wanted to enjoy myself.
A week or so later, I went out with two friends and he was badgering me to reply to him whilst I was trying to have fun. When I was dropping my friend off he obviously had looked at my location and said “why are you on some random street again?”
The next day he turned his location off (fine, I'm not bothered) and said it was because there’s no point having it on if I’m not going to tell him what I’m up to. He is out with friend and in all sorts of places and doesn’t keep me updated on what he’s doing, and I would never ask him to either. I explained this.
He then said “I’ve never cheated on a partner” and I said neither have I (I haven’t).
He then said that I had told him I’d slept with my ex’s brother. This is an ex from when I was 16 (I’m 26 this year) whom I was with before I even met my boyfriend. I don’t recall ever telling him I had done that. Ex’s brother did make moves on me at the time and I didn’t reciprocate. I did used to say/weird things as a (troubled) teen, but really don’t remember ever saying that.
If I bring up something he did even six months ago, he gets annoyed and says the relationship won’t work if I keep bringing up the past.
There was then back and forth. I said I couldn’t believe he was being like this because I dared go out with my friends.
He said “maybe don’t make up weird lies then”.
I ended up blocking him, but now I’m unsure if I’ve overreacted?
AIBU?