I 31F single for 4 years with 3 dogs go on holiday with divorced DF 2/3 times every year. We go on staycations in the UK which have activities that he enjoys there, and for us there’s walks nearby etc. The majority are lodge type holidays which stress my dogs out because if they see or hear anyone in the next lodge they will bark, this puts pressure on me and by the end I feel I need another holiday. My gripe is that when we get on these holidays he doesn’t even do the activities he literally sleeps for most of the day and I end up spending most of the holiday by myself trying to calm the dogs down which really isn’t fun. I can’t talk to him about it as I get shut down and told to either go home or stop moaning but we go to these places specifically for his interests. AIBU to not agree to go? After the holiday he will say he won’t do it the next time. I don’t mind holidaying alone or with friends and the dogs but the thought of him going alone or not at all really upsets me. How can we resolve this?