For context, the fencing in question is our responsibility. Today, our neighbour has asked if he can attach some climbers to his side of the fence. We stated that we’re in the process of getting quotes to have it all replaced as it’s old and damaged and we didn’t see the point in him planting out on his side before the new panels go in - we genuinely didn’t want to risk damaging any plants on his side.
He has now claimed that he wants much higher panels than already in situ and we have said no, that’s not happening as it will block a lot of natural light on our side. It will also look ridiculous because the existing posts won’t be tall enough to support higher panels and we are definitely NOT having posts replaced that are in good condition.
Am I being unreasonable in refusing to pay out a shed load of money for taller concrete posts and higher fence panels? There has been no offer from the neighbour to contribute to the project apart from him paying for his plants and shrubs and to be honest I don’t want his money as that could potentially lead to him claiming it’s half his fence and he can do what he likes.