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Fed up with drinking coffee in other people’s offices.

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canyouseemyhousefromhere · 09/05/2025 14:20

That’s what it feels like lately. I popped in for a coffee in a local coffee shop and was surrounded by four separate people working with laptops, headphones and piles of paperwork talking loudly to ‘clients’ . No food or drink in sight. I have just heard one of them invite 2 people to a meeting in this cafe, he’s busy arranging chairs (carrying them across the cafe) as I type.
I have no particular problem to people working in coffee shops but some are really taking the p now.
They often take the best tables and are now frequently causing a nuisance. I have seen two groups of shoppers change their minds whilst in the queue not sure if it’s because of the office people or just coincidence.
Is there also a confidentiality issue here perhaps? A list with personal information was clearly in view on the table.
Does anyone else feel fed up with this or am I just being a misery? 🤷‍♀️

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LittleBitofBread · 12/05/2025 15:33

KimberleyClark · 12/05/2025 15:15

This is actually true of many rural/tourist areas. I notice it in Scotland as well when we are on holiday there.

This has become much more marked since Brexit. I find it with pubs in touristy areas too, where you would think it would make good business sense to always be open and serving food at lunchtimes and late into the evening, but they're often closed several days or several mealtimes a week. Basically there aren't enough/good enough staff.

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 18/05/2025 17:55

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MasterBeth · 18/05/2025 18:19

canyouseemyhousefromhere · 12/05/2025 14:44

Another person deliberately misinterpreting the OP. It wasn’t a rammed Pret, it was an independent coffee shop in a bookshop. For fear of repeating myself; Many conversations going on, personal phone conversations and children chatting I have absolutely no problem with.

Tarquin/Melissa/Boris/Mary organising the space to facilitate a zoom/teams meeting, using multiple tables & chairs and speaking in a loud affected voice is quite different. I certainly wouldn’t be happy if I knew my business (and personal details) were being shared in a public space.

In fact I may start asking what their policy on this is next time I speak to someone at a company I’m dealing with.

They are often using unsecured WiFi networks remember too.

Yeah, but all that is, frankly, none of your business. Their meetings policy or information security has nothing to do with you. And it's up to the coffee shop how they handle customers.

You can dislike it. You can comment to the owners, if you want. You can withdraw your custom, or even open your own coffee shop if you're minded to. But there is no reason for the world to change just because you don't like it.

OnlyHerefortheBiscuits · 18/05/2025 18:27

The WiFi privacy thing is a moot point.

Corporate laptops have automatic VPN as standard and their employees will regularly connect to WiFi in hotels, trains, in flight WiFi and airport lounges.

KimberleyClark · 20/05/2025 10:30

I was in my favourite coffee shop yesterday, independent dog friendly local chain. It has a couple of “nooks” with three or four tables for two in them which are ideal for those wishing to work.

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