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That schools didn't observe the 2 minute silence for VE day today?

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madeofmore · 08/05/2025 15:38

I've no idea if this is a usual thing or not for schools, but for the 80th anniversary of VE day I thought DS's secondary would take part in the reflections and remembrance of 80 years since the second world war. I don't have a military background or any agenda to want this, more that I am surprised there wasn't any taking part, nothing mentioned in assembly or anything else this week. There was an assembly and special lunch today in Ds2's primary, not sure if they also observed the 2 minute silence at 11.

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Jujujudo · 08/05/2025 19:40

Sherararara · 08/05/2025 17:41

For how long? Another 50 years? A hundred? At some point you need to stop. it’s VE Day. It’s significant bit of history but not massively so.

I don’t know! I’m just giving my opinion. I’m not sure I care enough about it to argue…

Plack · 08/05/2025 19:45

I think it’s shameful. Those brave men and women fought for our civilisation, our way of life. Have we forgotten what terrible views the Nazis held? Our brave servicemen and women (well the entire country) literally stood up against evil and tyranny! We need to honour what was sacrificed. We should never forget it. As history so often repeats itself.

I went and lit a candle at my village war memorial. And I was ashamed how pitifully inadequate it felt. I can’t even imagine what ww2 soldiers went through.

As a British Indian, I don’t think I would even be alive today had the Allies not won (not to make it about myself).

How long should we do it? Well how much do you appreciate freedom?

HauntedBungalow · 08/05/2025 19:51

They fought in the interests of their country, same as everyone else. It really isn't about good and evil. Hope you enjoyed your candle.

Plack · 08/05/2025 19:52

HauntedBungalow · 08/05/2025 19:51

They fought in the interests of their country, same as everyone else. It really isn't about good and evil. Hope you enjoyed your candle.

How reductive.

TheCountofMountingCrispBags · 08/05/2025 19:53

madeofmore · 08/05/2025 19:00

Mind blown by some of the responses around British traditions and being British or otherwise.
As for silences being observed for past events; perhaps the significance of the anniversary was the reason to mark and remember this date for those who are still alive and did live through it and it may be the last for some many.
Don't forget, the repercussions of war were decades long in so many countries. My father, who was born just a year after the war ended, has shared his experiences of some of those repercussions but in just a few generations time that oral tradition of passing down stories and experiences will have gone.

It's really good to hear about the ways communities have shared something significant or special today. I especially love that older and younger generations could share for some of you.

I was mostly surprised and pretty disappointed that the opportunity for something like that was missed by son's school - and the simplest way to respect recent history was to observe a silence. Maybe it is meaningless without the understanding of why it matters to share something collectively as well. I do feel there is definitely some ignorance shown in a few replies that mention us or them or 'why bother?'

It's been pointed out already, several times.
November 11th, poppies the festival of REMEBRANCE. Silence for 2 mins, respect for the fallen.
VE Day. End of war, celebration. No need for silence, because Nov 11th.
It's sad the school didn't celebrate, but no silence required.

HauntedBungalow · 08/05/2025 20:02

Plack · 08/05/2025 19:52

How reductive.

Everyone who fights says it's about good and evil - ourside good, otherside evil. You'd never get blokes joining in otherwise.

As it happens the Nazis did perpetrate genocide which is obviously an evil act, but that isn't what we in the UK went to war on : we only found out about it after the event. We went to war because our interest was threatened by German expansion. And we ourselves were implicated in genocide, when our ally the good ol' US of A, the world's policeman (TM), vaporised Japanese citizens including children on their way to school, and won the war for us, while keeping us permanently in hock to them.

Yay, bunting.

EdithStourton · 08/05/2025 20:04

PluckyCheeks · 08/05/2025 15:42

No mention of it in schools where there isn’t much of a British contingent, I should imagine. Wouldn’t be of relevance to them.

An awful lot of Indian and African troops fought in the British Army in WWII...

Dabralor · 08/05/2025 20:06

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 08/05/2025 15:40

It’s long ago, and the country that my father fought for from 1939- 1946 ( Far East) has vanished with barely a trace.

Best forgotten, in my view.

Best forgotten?! World War 2?!

bigvig · 08/05/2025 20:07

PluckyCheeks · 08/05/2025 15:42

No mention of it in schools where there isn’t much of a British contingent, I should imagine. Wouldn’t be of relevance to them.

2 million troops from the old Empire took part on the Allies side in the war. It was a world war. I think it is worth remembering. For what it's worth our school did some commemorative activities.

Keirawr · 08/05/2025 20:09

Probably upsets lefties in the education profession to observe this. Thats why they didn’t do it.

KIlliePieMyOhMy · 08/05/2025 20:10

Can someone explain why schools have to do everything?
Could OP not have organised something herself for her son.
You can have a two-minutes silence whenever you want.

HauntedBungalow · 08/05/2025 20:12

Well nobody would see that would they.

ScoobyBooby · 08/05/2025 20:14

My children’s school celebrated VE Day.

Arran2024 · 08/05/2025 20:17

madeofmore · 08/05/2025 15:38

I've no idea if this is a usual thing or not for schools, but for the 80th anniversary of VE day I thought DS's secondary would take part in the reflections and remembrance of 80 years since the second world war. I don't have a military background or any agenda to want this, more that I am surprised there wasn't any taking part, nothing mentioned in assembly or anything else this week. There was an assembly and special lunch today in Ds2's primary, not sure if they also observed the 2 minute silence at 11.

My David Lloyd gym observed it! I was in an aqua class and we all stopped for 2 minutes. I'm surprised the school didn't support it.

PomegranateVase · 08/05/2025 20:25

My children’s school held a special celebration day, but I really would’ve expected and wanted them to hold a silence too - it is the least we can all do.

cardibach · 08/05/2025 20:26

Keirawr · 08/05/2025 20:09

Probably upsets lefties in the education profession to observe this. Thats why they didn’t do it.

Don’t talk utter rubbish. My dad was a leftie teacher. He was also in the RAF in WW2 and a lifelong member of the RBL. Did readings at Remembrance Services until he was too frail to go out. The left aren’t lacking in respect and patriotism.

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 08/05/2025 20:37

OP, is your ds at secondary school? Depending on what gcse options they offer, there was assessments going on today.

HauntedBungalow · 08/05/2025 20:38

How unpatriotic of them.

CosyAutumn · 08/05/2025 20:39

My primary had a VE Day celebration - non-uniform (red, white and blue), extra playtime with afternoon tea, bunting everywhere, VE Day lessons, a competition with winners announced tomorrow, etc.
But… we didn’t do a silence. I personally wasn’t aware there was even going to be a national silence.
Our approach was more of a celebration, like the one currently being televised on the BBC… A great big thank you to those who sacrificed their lives for our freedom, but not solemn like Remembrance Day.

Superhansrantowindsor · 08/05/2025 20:40

I didn’t know there was going to be a two minutes silence until I heard it mentioned on the 8am news bulletin.
Some of the comments on this thread have genuinely shocked me. When I think what my grandparents lived though. They weren’t the politicians who made the decisions - just ordinary people whose lives were turned upside down. A few years ago I went to visit the village dh’s granny grew up in. As we walked past the war memorial she stopped. She went through every name and told us about the young lads she’d played with as a child, who she had gone to school with. She remembered every single one, what they looked like, the house they lived in, how clever they were, what sport they played etc It was a very sad moment and I’ll never forget it. We must never forget WWII. Put aside the rights and wrong of it and just focus that war inevitably means the loss of innocent life. It’s no wonder people celebrated the end of it.

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 08/05/2025 20:46

We did, at the end of morning playtime. This things are important, and it's important that the children understand why we perform this act of remembrance...

We have pupils who have come to the school as refugees from the wars in Syria and Ukraine. They get it...

Jc2001 · 08/05/2025 20:51

Ddakji · 08/05/2025 17:42

The 2 minute silence” happens in November.

Exactly. Why would you observe a 2 minute silence for the end of the war in Europe? it's meant to be a celebration.

ShowOfHands · 08/05/2025 20:52

I'm a leftie teacher in a very leftie school and we dressed up, had assemblies leading up to it, taught themed lessons, had a 1940s lunch with music and bunting, students came in in their cadet/service uniforms, we observed the silence and we had a cake sale.

TooManyCupsAndMugs · 08/05/2025 20:55

Our school did, as did my son's secondary school. 2 minutes silence, special video to play while we were observing it.

GrammarTeacher · 08/05/2025 20:58

Keirawr · 08/05/2025 20:09

Probably upsets lefties in the education profession to observe this. Thats why they didn’t do it.

Nonsense. Loads of schools with many ‘lefties’ did the silence and celebrated the anniversary.