Objective advice much appreciated. Split from my husband well over a year ago. We had to live together for quite a long period until the house was sold about 5 months ago. As amicable as it can be, I initiated the split. Just grew apart over many years. We have 1 DS (11).
Ex told me a few days ago he's in a new relationship. I'd suspected as much and overall I'm happy for him. Of course after over 25 years together it's going to bring on a mixture of feelings but it's a healthy and good thing. He said he wanted to hold off telling DS for a little while. All fine.
My problem is he told me so I wouldn't be surprised. 24 hours later he's posted it on Facebook. They been together 2 months and he hasn't told DS yet. I'm worried my DS is going to hear about this second hand now. He's been through an awful lot of change already.
So, do I say something e.g. all your friends and family know, but your DS doesn't OR do I keep my mouth shut?