Am I too late?
Primary school have spent 5 years telling me DD won't meet the criteria and different teachers and SENCOs have all told me this.
I have raised about applying for an EHCP multiple times starting from 5 years ago to date, but the staff have always insisted to me that DD's learning needs can be met by them and that she doesn't need an EHCP. They've given me flat "no" every time I've asked and haven't been open to just trying and seeing what happens. I've always been guided by the school in this since they're the professionals in primary education and I am not. I know nothing about how the EHCP criteria is met or not met, nor anything about how a child is assessed or what the threshold is. So I've always taken their advice that an EHCP would be declined for her.
Meanwhile DD is working at least 4 school years behind her actual school year in reading, spelling and maths. So is in year 6, and is being given year 2 level work and is even struggling with that. And school have removed her from sitting year 6 SATS later this month because she won't be able to read the papers due to her SEN.
She is on the school's own internal SEN register.
Officially diagnosed with severe dyslexia (I organised a private comprehensive assessment and she got the diagnosis after school refused to refer her for dyslexia assessment and told me she's not dyslexic and shows no signs of dyslexia. Her diagnosis states she severely dyslexic. ).
The school's current decision to remove DD from yr 6 SATS has made me question their decision re her not being eligible for an EHCP application, because to my mind, if she's so far delayed in her learning due to SEN that the school have decided she can't access yr 6 SATS, would this not indicate that she would meet the criteria for an EHCP?
I now feel like I want to take matters in to my own hands and apply for one myself. If I don't get one for her then I don't get one. But I'll never know if I don't one.
But have I left it too late in the school year to do this? Not for any chance of extra support at primary, I realise it's too late for that. But can I apply now with the focus being on extra support moving forwards in to secondary education?
I'd be so grateful for advice from those who know about all this.