@Bumpitybumper and @Bushmillsbabe
The issue I have with the 'It's subsidised!' is that people have conjured up an image that my rent is either nothing, or so close to nothing that 'the taxpayer' (of which I am one, not a net contributer but I do pay tax and NI on my earnings as does everyone) is basically paying for me to live for free, or so close to free it's negligible, and judge me morally, 6 ways from Sunday because of it.
It's not free or close to being free, it's cheaper than private rent, but the fact this place was subsidised to be built 50 odd years ago is a small part of why it's cheaper and not the only factor.
As already explained HAs are non profit, have their own repairs teams, they offer less than private rent with what they are responsible for Vs the tenant than private rent and they are designed so that people on low incomes can afford somewhere half decent to live. That's their whole premise.
In private or SH a rent is charged and the tenant pays it, in both, that money could come from private earned income or benefits ('the taxpayer) or a mix of the two, SH is cheaper Vs private because of the reasons highlighted above. So private lets can also be subsidised by 'the tax payer' only that's usually going into private hands rather than a community resource.
And subsidy exists across all of society, when you use any service that's traditionally low paid you're benefiting from lower prices or taxes than they might be, because at least some of the people need more money to live on than the job provides. We end up paying the cost of it one way or the other, either by benefits and SH or a higher base price so those things are not needed.
And people feel just as entitled to those services being subsidised by low wages as you say people are to social housing - but it seems to be more acceptable because they might be net contributers or higher earners or the 'squeezed middle' and see themselves as the saviour of society, paying for everything and ignoring the fact they do actually benefit from those subsidies too, provided by the 'squashed bottom', people are also not backwards in complaining bitterly about the 'lack of service' in return for what they're paying - which isn't enough to survive on without subsidy. So yes, there's entitlement all over society, it's not just the remit of the poorer among us.
When it comes to a lifetime tenancy, I have one. But it is not tied to this property. It is any property the HA has available that I qualify for.
I've already said I am more than willing to downsize, but the majority of HA stock is 3 beds, the 2 beds are for over 55's or disabled tenants, I'm neither so don't qualify, and most one beds are ring fenced for care leavers, prison leavers, people with mental health issues or social needs, those who need more support than I do, moving into one even if I could would definitely be depriving someone who needs it more. And while my DD lives with me, they won't allow over occupancy even if we're willing to (which I would be), a smaller place would benefit me as it would be cheaper to run and easier to look after.
I am encouraged to invest in this place, spend money keeping it nice, but I limit what I do because ultimately whatever I do will be ripped out and it will be taken back to the bare bones when I move out, and if I didn't have some security that I will at least be here for another 10 years until I turn 55 and qualify for a bungalow, I'm not going to invest what little I do have on stuff that I can't take with me when I do leave and that will just end up in a skip. I've put carpets down and keep them in good condition - but I'll take them with me when I go for my new place, I keep the garden clean and tidy but its very basic and mostly things that I can take with me, but I've put a lot of time and effort into it, turning it from the dump left by the last tenants to a bit of green and repaired fences and bits to be functional but it isn't pretty to be honest.
I am (was? Child is an adult now) a single parent, I have no partner or spouse and my child lives with me. On the event of my death she may inherit my tenancy if she meets the requirements to have a SH tenancy (which considering she is in her final year at university and her starting salary is more than my salary now, is doubtful, but it would have ensured she had somewhere to live while she completed that should I have died) it would pass to her in exactly the same way it would to a spouse if I had one.