@Pickingmyselfup You have to work on the sugar addiction :)
It takes time and needs determination but it does work.
I used to have 1 teaspoon of sugar in tea or coffee.
I was partly 'shamed' when I met DH as no one in the social group we were in took sugar. (We were all late 20s at the time.)
I reduced to half a teaspoon, then a quarter, then none.
This took about a month.
The nutritional advice is that adults should not consume more than 6 teaspoons of sugar a day- that's 30gms. That includes 'hidden' sugar in prepared foods, drinks, sauces (eg ketchup), jams, and of course biscuits, confectionary etc.
You will eventually re-educate your taste buds when something sweet is unpleasant. (If I make a cake now and then I reduce the sugar by a third to half, depending on the recipe because otherwise it's too sweet.)
I think you need to focus not on calories but on the quality of what you eat.
To be honest, 2 teaspoons of sugar a day is better than using artificial sweeteners, which still give sugar spikes and long term will bugger up your pancreas and can cause diabetes.
The downside of sugar is not weight gain, but metabolic syndrome. The pancreas eventually gives up after having to process sugar and that sugar ends up not being metabolised and causes raised blood sugar- = diabetes.
Sorry for the lecturing tone, but it's important to understand what can happen.