I really find it hard to ask for help, stems back to childhood (doesn't it feel like everything does sometimes) where asking for help was strongly discouraged, I was very much expected to do things on my own even if I struggled a lot and then was berated if I got things wrong on my own.
I need to move a heavy item out of my car into my garden but I already asked my neighbours 5 weeks ago to help me move a piece of furniture. Is it okay to ask again and if so should I send a message in the neighbour WhatsApp group? I'm on really good terms with my neighbours, I got my next door neighbour a gift recently when she had a bereavement and we chat whenever we pass each other and the couple two doors down we regularly chat and one of them has been round to my house for catch ups. The other two neighbours that might help I don't talk to as much but one of them offered to help me move the furniture.