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To find end of season awards ceremonies tedious?

4 replies

slet · 04/05/2025 20:08

Before anyone has a go, I really appreciate the time that coaches in grassroots sports etc put in for extra curricular activities, my dcs get loads out of them, and I know they couldn’t function without volunteers giving up their time, for which I am very grateful, but my god……

Today I sat in a hot function room for nearly 4 hours, listening to speech after speech about age groups I don’t know, clapped politely for each age group, then waited in the queue for about 30 mins for barely edible beige buffet food, thought it was over then remembered the raffle, which must have taken an hour. And then when it was finally over, the other parents looked at me like I was mad when I put my coat on to leave, as they were staying to carry on drinking and watch the sport we have been discussing for the past 4 hours, on tv screens in the venue.

Am I a shit parent just not to enjoy this sort of occasion? I know it’s a nice thing and ds got to spend time with his sporting mates, but I thought it was something we all just endured as parents and then realised today that some of them must actually actively enjoy it as a day out?

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Notquitegrownup2 · 04/05/2025 20:27

YANBU.

It's a phase, which will pass but yes, that's one memory I shudder at. The novelty does wear off for the kids after a few years . . .

Ablondiebutagoody · 05/05/2025 01:36

I enjoy them but DS's club do it per age group so only about 30 mins watching kids that you know receiving trophies and having nice stuff said about them. Then beige food for them whilst parents have a few drinks.

takealettermsjones · 05/05/2025 01:54

I don't think you're a shit parent and I don't think you're BU to not enjoy it - we're all different, we can't enjoy everything 🤷🏻‍♀️ but I think you're being a bit U wrt your overall attitude towards the event. As much as you say you appreciate all the effort put in by volunteers at grassroots level, that doesn't really come across in your post. The people running and organising this club got involved in it because they're good at the sport, they're not event planners. If you think it could be run better, why not volunteer to help them out? That would be the useful and community spirited thing to do, surely!

MermaidMummy06 · 05/05/2025 02:08

I hate having to sit through hours of people speaking & clapping for people I don't know, just for my DC to make an appearance for a minute or less.

I find the enthusiastic parents are the ones with DC who are speaking, getting awards & are involved in the sport themselves. They usually know each other well, and the sport is part of their lifestyle, whereas we're just showing up for our DC sake.

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