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How can you find out why someone had an ankle monitor

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IcyPenguin101 · 03/05/2025 19:02

Someone staying with a neighbour has an electronic monitor on their ankle. I assume someone would only have an ankle monitor if they have gotten out of prison and that is their place of record of probation purposes. I’m not friendly enough with the neighbour to ask straight out who is the person but I assume a family member. I’m basically wondering if I have to be concerned. I’m assuming they’d only permit ankle monitoring for something low level?

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ilovesooty · 03/05/2025 21:42

HaveSomeHam · 03/05/2025 20:51

He’s clearly a criminal, why are you all jumping to his defence?!

Who's leaping to his defence? In any case if he's on bail pending trial he isn't necessarily a criminal.

WinterMorn · 03/05/2025 21:42

HaveSomeHam · 03/05/2025 21:08

So we should all cower to the criminals in case we get beaten up? 😆

That’s quite the reach.

Smallmercies · 03/05/2025 21:42

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 03/05/2025 21:23

I know of someone who had a tag because he had been convicted of stalking his ex-girlfriend.

That'll be it, then! Mystery solved.

ilovesooty · 03/05/2025 21:43

ExtraOnions · 03/05/2025 20:57

You lose your right to privacy and anonymity when you start committing crime.

It's not been established that he's actually committed a crime.

Branster · 03/05/2025 21:47

MeanMrMustardSeed · 03/05/2025 20:05

I don’t believe for one second that all the people who’ve said it’s none of OPs business wouldn’t be interested if it were their neighbour!

Exactly!
I'd absolutely be wondering what it means.

EilishMcCandlish · 03/05/2025 22:02

Trovindia · 03/05/2025 21:19

I think it's all part of the same principle. If you've committed a crime you've no real right to privacy about it.

That assumes this person has committed a crime.

bumblebee3122 · 03/05/2025 22:10

Depending on what time of day you saw them there. Only person I knew had a tag with a curfew between 7-7 over night so he could go anywhere in the daytime.

maybe they don’t live with neighbour and are just visiting.

PeloMom · 03/05/2025 22:13

Are you sure it’s an actual ankle monitor? I wear my iwatch on ankle strap around my ankle as step count is more accurate and people think it’s an ankle monitor 🤣

treesandsun · 03/05/2025 22:22

WearyAuldWumman · 03/05/2025 20:09

Not so.

A 19 yr old who attempted to rape a 10 yr old girl in my area was tagged and discharged because it was his 'first offence' and he was under the age of 21. The fact that he was care experienced was also mentioned in mitigation. He was on remand until the court case, however. (Mind you, this was Scotland - maybe it's different in the rest of the UK.)

Fucking hell !

IcyPenguin101 · 03/05/2025 22:22

bumblebee3122 · 03/05/2025 22:10

Depending on what time of day you saw them there. Only person I knew had a tag with a curfew between 7-7 over night so he could go anywhere in the daytime.

maybe they don’t live with neighbour and are just visiting.

Hmmm to do that sort of reconnaissance will require curtain twitching 😂

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IcyPenguin101 · 03/05/2025 22:25

PeloMom · 03/05/2025 22:13

Are you sure it’s an actual ankle monitor? I wear my iwatch on ankle strap around my ankle as step count is more accurate and people think it’s an ankle monitor 🤣

It was not a watch, like a small box on a thick version of a zip tie type strap so no way to get off (if that makes sense). Obv that was just at a few seconds glance, I wasn’t staring but def not a watch/exercise tracker. Granted I’ve never actually seen an ankle monitor other than in movies but that is all I could think it was.

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SarcasticIntrovert · 03/05/2025 22:26

hoarahloux · 03/05/2025 19:52

"Oh shit, we haven't got room for Tom RapenMurder today."

"Damn. Well, guess we have no choice. Put a tag on him and release him!"

There are many people accused of rape/murder/child molestation etc. who are awaiting trial and not in prison. Scary but true I'm afraid.

kwetu · 03/05/2025 22:35

hoarahloux · 03/05/2025 19:52

"Oh shit, we haven't got room for Tom RapenMurder today."

"Damn. Well, guess we have no choice. Put a tag on him and release him!"

Unfortunately the state of our current prison system is that people who wouldn’t ordinarily be up for release ARE getting released early supposedly with tags but even the tagging system is broken and many many offenders some very serious offenders are getting released and often not even having tags fitted for weeks/months afterwards.

CleaningAngel · 03/05/2025 22:44

IcyPenguin101 · 03/05/2025 19:02

Someone staying with a neighbour has an electronic monitor on their ankle. I assume someone would only have an ankle monitor if they have gotten out of prison and that is their place of record of probation purposes. I’m not friendly enough with the neighbour to ask straight out who is the person but I assume a family member. I’m basically wondering if I have to be concerned. I’m assuming they’d only permit ankle monitoring for something low level?

How did u get close enough to see it

PickyTits · 03/05/2025 22:47

You should be more concerned about criminals who haven't been caught yet to be honest. There are MILLIONS of 'criminals' in the UK, according to Unlock it's more than 12.5 million https://unlock.org.uk/new-figures-confirm-more-than-12-5-million-people-in-the-uk-have-a-criminal-record/, now add the figure for those who have never been caught and it would be much higher. I wouldn't even give it a second thought if I saw one of my neighbours on tag to be honest, not my business, I'd just be thankful that whatever they've done they were at least caught for it.

New figures confirm more than 12.5 million people in the UK have a criminal record - Unlock

https://unlock.org.uk/new-figures-confirm-more-than-12-5-million-people-in-the-uk-have-a-criminal-record/

Trovindia · 03/05/2025 22:52

EilishMcCandlish · 03/05/2025 22:02

That assumes this person has committed a crime.

Isn't that why you get a tag? I know nothing about them but thought they were an alternative to prison.

ilovesooty · 03/05/2025 22:56

Trovindia · 03/05/2025 22:52

Isn't that why you get a tag? I know nothing about them but thought they were an alternative to prison.

You can be fitted with them if you're on bail too.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 03/05/2025 22:58

Trovindia · 03/05/2025 19:43

It's interesting how many people are saying it's none of the OPs business when the principle of justice in this country is that it should not only be done, but be seen to be done, which is why they're are public galleries in courts and journalists are able to go and report on cases as standard.

I would also want to know, but it's not so easy to find out.

But it is being seen to be done - he's wearing a tag and the OP has seen it.

Ilovelurchers · 03/05/2025 23:00

To give you an example, my friend's stepdaughter was tagged for assaulting someone when there were mitigating circumstances (long history of verbal bullying of her by the person she assaulted, which was known to the police. She was nontheless "lucky" to escape a prison sentence due to the severity of the assault, and given loads of cumm7nit service, a curfew and an alcohol ban (she had been drinking when she carried out the assault). The tav monitored the curfew and the alcohol ban - it contained something that could apparently monitor alcohol intake, zero idea how .....

This is someon who had committed a crime but was not thought to be a danger to the general public. Hopefully the same in your neighbour's case OP, so try not to worry. As others have said, it's those with criminal intent who have NOT been prosecuted and ragged who probably pose us the greatest risk.

Trovindia · 03/05/2025 23:00

ilovesooty · 03/05/2025 22:56

You can be fitted with them if you're on bail too.

Ok, I didn't know that.

CaptainMyCaptain · 03/05/2025 23:04

HaveSomeHam · 03/05/2025 20:51

He’s clearly a criminal, why are you all jumping to his defence?!

Nobody is defending him it's a question of what your legal rights are.

feelingbleh · 03/05/2025 23:07

Yanbu I'd want to know if a paedophile or rapist lived next door. I'm sure it's nothing that serious but when you don't know these are the things you think.

jcyclops · 03/05/2025 23:58

Bail conditions sometimes ban "the accused" from going within a certain distance of a particular location. This may cause the accused to live temporarily with other family or a friend, and the tag is to monitor compliance.

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IcyPenguin101 · 03/05/2025 19:51

No, not from another country. Though they aren’t ordinarily resident in that house.

Thanks to those who have come back with actual responses. As a law abiding citizen and having never known anyone to have had ankle monitoring, it was a genuine question not that I wanted to know EXACTLY the reason but more to understand why you’d get ankle monitoring and to understand whether it was something I needed to be concerned about. The consensus seems to be it would be alcohol related or bail or the like but nothing serious (so that’s good news).

To all those saying keep your nose out/none of my business, I’m fairly certain you would be curious with a view to understanding whether you needed to be concerned for your own family/safety.

It absolutely could be for something serious. A sex offender released by the parole board, for an example, could be made to wear one.