There are definitely some more liberal interpretations of the law to get a EHCP in some areas.
Clearly you don’t have DC who you have pursued an EHCP for. This really isn’t the case. LAs don’t issue EHCPs unless the legal threshold set out in section 37 of the Children and Families Act 2014 is met (and even if it is, they often still refuse). Neither does SENDIST - if they did, LAs would by quick to challenge the decision via the Upper Tier.
In fact schools and LAs often don’t look at needs in the same way.
This is true. That doesn’t mean parents pursuing support are the problem. The problem lies with LAs acting unlawfully. Not the parents. You can see this by SENDIST and LGO statistics. Some schools fail to recognise or acknowledge a child’s SEN - that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist, which is proven when they go to SENDIST.