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To think voluntourism needs to be called out?

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icreaminbarnsley · 03/05/2025 07:29

I've had numerous requests this year by parents of teen dc who are going to various African countries to contribute to their crowdfunding "to help the people in [insert country]". They further explain that said child will be building schools/wells, teaching English, designing sanitation projects....but the latest I received was that their child would be "advising locals on how to set up a business". This in particular has really annoyed me, as the child is doing A Levels, has no business of their own, and no business acumen that I'm aware of. How can you be so brass necked and unaware to be spouting stuff like this? I totally get going to a different country is going to be a fantastic experience for the dc, but who is dressing it up to make it sound like these teens have something important to offer and are needed abroad, in areas that they have absolutely zero experience? I also get that the locals might benefit from the money that the dc need to pay to undertake such an experience, but is it really the locals who benefit, or is it the mainly the 'charitable' organizations that are based in the UK?

AIBU to feel we need to call this a unique opportunity to experience life in [insert country] and not delude ourselves into thinking the locals are benefitting from groups of western teens, who are not builders, engineers or business advisers?

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MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 09:42

User46576 · 03/05/2025 09:40

I remember David Lammy criticizing Stacey Dooley for promoting a comic relief funded maternity Centre in Africa (white savior etc). I find that ridiculous. Having worked in developing countries the locals don’t care about that and would rather have the clinic with well qualified staff (white or not).

To be honest if any Ugandans want to come and set up a free clinic with qualified doctors and nurses in my area I’m all for it! I might then have an outside chance of getting a doctors appointment

Stacey Dooley isn't qualified staff.

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 09:43

And by the way, I adore Stacey Dooley. And Stacey Solomon fwiw..

User46576 · 03/05/2025 09:47

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 09:41

If they didnt have an army of students to "volunteer", many of these places would be forced to spend the money on training and retaining qualified staff.

There are places that literally slash their qualified posts through the summer because they know Emily and Anais will be coming over to "deliver babies".

Sorry but sadly it often doesn’t work like that in developing countries (or developed ones) especially where women’s health is concerned. Just because people don’t turn up to help doesn’t mean there are the resources or inclination to set up a good maternity system. Thinking that the problem will fix itself if you do nothing is magical thinking

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 09:52

User46576 · 03/05/2025 09:47

Sorry but sadly it often doesn’t work like that in developing countries (or developed ones) especially where women’s health is concerned. Just because people don’t turn up to help doesn’t mean there are the resources or inclination to set up a good maternity system. Thinking that the problem will fix itself if you do nothing is magical thinking

It actually does work like that because it has been tried and tested. Paying qualified people more and providing better conditions actually meant they were more likely to take up these posts and stay in them.

It's just cheaper to allow middle classed western students to do it instead and they feel a sense of entitlement to be allowed to do it so it becomes a vicious circle and breeds corruption.

User46576 · 03/05/2025 09:52

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 09:42

Stacey Dooley isn't qualified staff.

No I’m not suggesting she is qualified in healthcare. She was promoting a free maternity clinic with qualified staff funded by comic relief. So people would give money to fund the clinic. That’s her job - and good on her.

David lammy is an idiot with luxury beliefs - poor women want good healthcare. We don’t have the luxury of foregoing it to wang on about skin color or student politics nonsense.

TheGreyQuail · 03/05/2025 09:52

Heck, it's smacks of 'let's go and see how the poor live' before returning to our naice, well equipped home and feel good about ourselves. Thankful that it's them and not me living in a shack.
These trips get a wide swerve from me, you want your kid to go you fund it yourself.
I'll stick with sponsoring children in 3rd world countries that really need the help, and not kids on a jolly up poncing around.

User46576 · 03/05/2025 09:54

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 09:52

It actually does work like that because it has been tried and tested. Paying qualified people more and providing better conditions actually meant they were more likely to take up these posts and stay in them.

It's just cheaper to allow middle classed western students to do it instead and they feel a sense of entitlement to be allowed to do it so it becomes a vicious circle and breeds corruption.

It really doesn’t. Healthcare in many developing countries for women is woeful even if bad forrins are not volunteering.

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 09:54

User46576 · 03/05/2025 09:52

No I’m not suggesting she is qualified in healthcare. She was promoting a free maternity clinic with qualified staff funded by comic relief. So people would give money to fund the clinic. That’s her job - and good on her.

David lammy is an idiot with luxury beliefs - poor women want good healthcare. We don’t have the luxury of foregoing it to wang on about skin color or student politics nonsense.

Yes I agree that is the job of celebs on comic relief. I didn't agree with Lammy fully on that part, but I'm well aware of the general problems of volunteering in these locations.

What i actually liked about the Lammy thing is the conversations in the black community about why black celebs weren't being asked or taking up these positions when they were asked.

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 09:56

User46576 · 03/05/2025 09:54

It really doesn’t. Healthcare in many developing countries for women is woeful even if bad forrins are not volunteering.

Do you work in women's and public health at all? Because I'm a midwife with a special interest in this area. What I'm talking about actually comes from solid research and my connections with various maternity initiatives across the world.

Where is yours coming from?

ChocolateCinderToffee · 03/05/2025 09:56

They’d do better to get a job in the UK and donate their earnings to Lend With Care.

GreenFressia · 03/05/2025 09:57

No one in Africa thinks that the teens doing this are having any more than an enriching youth experience.

While they are there they mix with other kids/young people who get to meet teens from another culture too who also have a good experience.

The white saviour idea isn't about the teens going abroad - it's about missionary organisations. It's also an issue with how we have historically portrayed Africa on TV. Its about restrictions tied to foreign aid.

What I don't agree with is a crowd funder. You should do sponsored events to raise money for it.

Screamingabdabz · 03/05/2025 09:58

Poppyseeds79 · 03/05/2025 07:41

It'll be the "charities" who are benefiting financially. Great experience for the kids no doubt, but it's basically just 3rd World tourism.

My grandad was part of a UN exploratory commission many years ago due to his at the time ground breaking agriculture knowledge. He basically had a mental health breakdown as a result of touring the countries dying on their arse from poverty, lack of information, and no desire to try to support themselves. He said they had the necessary equipment shipped over and it was literally rotting as nobody either knew how to use it, nor wanted to.

The problem is that some countries are legitimately so fucked that people don't even have a starting point to help themselves. Their governments skim donation money for themselves, and the public are generationally reliant on just being supplied with handouts.

We had a highly qualified friend who did VSO and said the same. Tried and tested simply engineered techniques that could have improved so much for people’s lives for their village and farming were laughed at and nothing changed.

Strangeworldtoday · 03/05/2025 09:59

Go and do some charitable work, thats great. Asking others to fund it, is just plain CF erism. Fund your Mother Therisa experience week yourself !

DancefloorAcrobatics · 03/05/2025 10:01

Thinking that the problem will fix itself if you do nothing is magical thinking

But the problem needs to be fixed from the inside out (by local people & politicians in other wors society to have true lasting effects) not from the outside in (student volunteers and people who have no connections to the land and people).
The most successful projects with real change are the ones where local people are trained and given real jobs from managers to cleaners, creating economic viability.

One example is training ex poachers as game keepers and guides for tourist in big national parks.

User46576 · 03/05/2025 10:02

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 09:54

Yes I agree that is the job of celebs on comic relief. I didn't agree with Lammy fully on that part, but I'm well aware of the general problems of volunteering in these locations.

What i actually liked about the Lammy thing is the conversations in the black community about why black celebs weren't being asked or taking up these positions when they were asked.

I don’t think it should matter whether Stacy Dooley is black or not tho. To me much of the debate is about politicians v people. People like David lammy likes his student politics grift that keeps him in a privileged job. He doesn’t need to worry about actual poor women who need healthcare. Stacey Dooley to my mind is on the side of the ordinary woman who just needs healthcare.

interestingly having studied development, many of the reasons for countries being poor is a lack of accountability of their politicians and institutions to ordinary people. They tend to spout dogma rather than worrying about what ordinary people want. That’s here in the uk too but not as bad.

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 10:05

User46576 · 03/05/2025 10:02

I don’t think it should matter whether Stacy Dooley is black or not tho. To me much of the debate is about politicians v people. People like David lammy likes his student politics grift that keeps him in a privileged job. He doesn’t need to worry about actual poor women who need healthcare. Stacey Dooley to my mind is on the side of the ordinary woman who just needs healthcare.

interestingly having studied development, many of the reasons for countries being poor is a lack of accountability of their politicians and institutions to ordinary people. They tend to spout dogma rather than worrying about what ordinary people want. That’s here in the uk too but not as bad.

To understand why the colonies are in the state they are now, you'd have to understand the perils of colonialism and this isn't the thread (or possibly the site) for that conversation. Or any of the conversations about why it would be important to have Black celebs (not exclusively) in those roles.

User46576 · 03/05/2025 10:05

DancefloorAcrobatics · 03/05/2025 10:01

Thinking that the problem will fix itself if you do nothing is magical thinking

But the problem needs to be fixed from the inside out (by local people & politicians in other wors society to have true lasting effects) not from the outside in (student volunteers and people who have no connections to the land and people).
The most successful projects with real change are the ones where local people are trained and given real jobs from managers to cleaners, creating economic viability.

One example is training ex poachers as game keepers and guides for tourist in big national parks.

Of course those types of projects are best. Volunteers from overseas could and often do have a role in those projects. But thinking that if there are no foreign volunteers good services will magically appear is nonsense.

User46576 · 03/05/2025 10:07

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 10:05

To understand why the colonies are in the state they are now, you'd have to understand the perils of colonialism and this isn't the thread (or possibly the site) for that conversation. Or any of the conversations about why it would be important to have Black celebs (not exclusively) in those roles.

None of the evidence shows that colonialism itself has anything to do with whether countries are rich or poor. Making basic healthcare into some middle class dogma about race is hideous imo.

Caroparo52 · 03/05/2025 10:07

You're not wrong. Dd went to (insert country) to help rebuild school and add to academic calender. In reality she painted a few walls, avoided being bitten by deadly snake, propositioned by local village chief and had a really fantastic time. Was not cheap holiday.

Navyontop · 03/05/2025 10:09

It’s called racism.
To think your own culture is so superior that you’re doing people a favour, it’s grotesque.

User46576 · 03/05/2025 10:10

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 09:56

Do you work in women's and public health at all? Because I'm a midwife with a special interest in this area. What I'm talking about actually comes from solid research and my connections with various maternity initiatives across the world.

Where is yours coming from?

I’ve worked and studied development. Sadly problems don’t fix themselves in the absence of foreign volunteers.

User46576 · 03/05/2025 10:11

Navyontop · 03/05/2025 10:09

It’s called racism.
To think your own culture is so superior that you’re doing people a favour, it’s grotesque.

It’s racism to volunteer at a clinic or to bold a house or do a beach clean in another country?

wow, I’ve heard everything now

DancefloorAcrobatics · 03/05/2025 10:12

User46576 · 03/05/2025 10:07

None of the evidence shows that colonialism itself has anything to do with whether countries are rich or poor. Making basic healthcare into some middle class dogma about race is hideous imo.

History and current affairs are riddled with countless examples.

Colonialism destroyed local economies, cultures and structures. But that's a discussion for another thread.

MyOliveHelper · 03/05/2025 10:12

User46576 · 03/05/2025 10:10

I’ve worked and studied development. Sadly problems don’t fix themselves in the absence of foreign volunteers.

What type of development? Are you currently involved with any global organisations which provide health and social care in developing countries? Are you currently involved in academia in this field?

Hollyhedge · 03/05/2025 10:13

Absolutely. Fund your own trip. There is something colonial about it