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Neighbours Garden Office

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Soontobesingles · 29/04/2025 15:19

My neighbours have recently started having work done to add an office/summer house thing to their garden. No planning permission and it is absolutely massive - to the point it will put 1/2 my lovey sunny garden in shade. I have told them that it is too high and they need planning permission. Builders insisting they don’t as something to do with a slope in the garden but rules are about height from foundations. Anyway, I have said I will report if it isn’t sufficiently reduced and both neighbour and builders are going mad saying £1,000s already spent on materials and plans, labour etc. AIBU to say I don’t care an will report? My garden is my sanctuary and many of my plants will die if shaded year round.

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Soontobesingles · 29/04/2025 21:17

DrPrunesqualer · 29/04/2025 21:04

OPs garden is at a lower level to her neighbours. Hence the new building whilst within permitted development rights ( assuming it is ) within her neighbours garden it would be higher on OPs side.
That is acceptable

It is both higher than regs and also on gradient garden so is effectively height of our house. I will do diagram once have a sec.

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Whammyyammy · 29/04/2025 21:19

Wahsingday · 29/04/2025 15:21

If they haven’t done anything wrong then they shouldn’t worry about you reporting it. How much they have already spent isn’t your problem.

This

Ohwowwolf · 29/04/2025 21:19

Those neighbours are selfish fckrs. Clearly tryna get round the planning laws. Do whatever you need to do, OP. Stand your ground. I hope it costs them.

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2025 21:20

Unless you've been into their garden and measured from the structure's floor, at the highest point in their garden, to the eaves and the apex of the roof then you don't have an accurate measurement of the structure's height.

Those are the only measurements that matter.

DrPrunesqualer · 29/04/2025 21:21

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2025 21:20

Unless you've been into their garden and measured from the structure's floor, at the highest point in their garden, to the eaves and the apex of the roof then you don't have an accurate measurement of the structure's height.

Those are the only measurements that matter.

Edited

Exactly.
I have a feeling OPs neighbours are in the right on this one.

YourAzureEagle · 29/04/2025 21:23

Soontobesingles · 29/04/2025 15:24

DH measured and it is way above the regs. They are trying to gaslight by arguing about the slope in their garden, hoping we will calm down. We have lived here years and always got on with them so think they are surprised we are so cross.

I'm a builder, if they are correct in their assumptions, then they have nothing to fear from a report - if they have not done the measurements and calculations, they certainly do.

The fact they are fretting says to me they are on the wrong side of the rules, and it won't be up for long.

Ohwowwolf · 29/04/2025 21:23

MasterpiecesofthePuzzle · 29/04/2025 17:49

To add another dimension my husband is a builder. We’ve bulit a large sunhouse/bar at the bottom of our garden. Husband very aware of planning rules. When we returned from our holiday last year I received a letter from local planning saying that a neighbour had reported us and officer needed to inspect it.

of course we complied and planning confirmed it was permitted and we continued. We now have no relationship with our neighbours unfortunately as they feel too awkward to speak to is anymore.

They have a right to report it though if they think it might be flouting building regulations. I don’t see a problem with that.

lostinthesunshine · 29/04/2025 21:25

Soontobesingles · 29/04/2025 21:17

It is both higher than regs and also on gradient garden so is effectively height of our house. I will do diagram once have a sec.

So is it 4.5m from the foundations (that’s MASSIVE) …

… or 4.5m above your garden because of the slope (could well be permitted)?

YourAzureEagle · 29/04/2025 21:26

Soontobesingles · 29/04/2025 21:17

It is both higher than regs and also on gradient garden so is effectively height of our house. I will do diagram once have a sec.

Problem with the gradient is that its rather tricky to get accurate measurements from your side as you can't get round it with a tape.

You could hire a theodolite from your local tool hire shop and measure it from a distance.

MyNameIsX · 29/04/2025 21:29

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2025 20:32

If planning permission allows it, then I can't really see why you think you have a right to control your neighbour's property. If you didn't take potential developments into account when you bought your property, you're a bit of a fool, aren't you?

@MyNameIsX - I was actually going to mention that in my original reply. It always seems that the NIMBYs squeal and moan about extensions and then ten years later they've all done exactly the same thing. I expect you still think you're somehow superior to the people you're now copying. 🙄

It's like when a Lidl or Aldi opens a store and they all loudly complain about the lowering of the tone and impact upon house prices, but then end up shopping there.

Behave yourself.

Theres often a huge distinction between what you are lawfully permitted to do, and what you should do, when acting in a considerate way.

At least, that’s how reasonable people behave.

You are a reasonable person, aren’t you?

DrPrunesqualer · 29/04/2025 21:29

YourAzureEagle · 29/04/2025 21:26

Problem with the gradient is that its rather tricky to get accurate measurements from your side as you can't get round it with a tape.

You could hire a theodolite from your local tool hire shop and measure it from a distance.

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Or OP could just ask the neighbours for permission to measure it from their side at the highest point.
If they won’t allow her then all she has to do is report it to planning and they will check
Job done

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2025 21:33

Just to complicate matters, have they built it square on to the slope or is it sitting like a diamond with only one corner touching the highest point in their garden? That would increase the distance from the highest point to the lowest point by 40% for a square structure (a2 + b2 = c^2) and would, presumably, also increase the drop by 40% (and the apparent height at the boundary by 40%).

MsAmerica · 29/04/2025 21:34

Soontobesingles · 29/04/2025 15:19

My neighbours have recently started having work done to add an office/summer house thing to their garden. No planning permission and it is absolutely massive - to the point it will put 1/2 my lovey sunny garden in shade. I have told them that it is too high and they need planning permission. Builders insisting they don’t as something to do with a slope in the garden but rules are about height from foundations. Anyway, I have said I will report if it isn’t sufficiently reduced and both neighbour and builders are going mad saying £1,000s already spent on materials and plans, labour etc. AIBU to say I don’t care an will report? My garden is my sanctuary and many of my plants will die if shaded year round.

Well, I'd phrase it less aggressively, but of course you should complain to the city and ask them to check.
Just recognize that it's kind of a lose-lose situation. Either you do nothing and fume every day at the results, or you file a complaint and your neighbors hate you. Personally, I'd choose the latter.

Malagase · 29/04/2025 21:37

I wouldn't hesitate to contact the Council. I would include photos as well.

Gonners · 29/04/2025 21:38

We had something similar (but much worse) locally, when an apparently insane couple with a house on a corner got permission to convert their loft, with skylight windows. They then proceeded to build an entire extra storey, full height, with normal windows, and were starting to add a roof on top. It didn't affect us, but the immediate neighbours were suddenly (a) overlooked from above and (b) in the dark from the south and west. They were too nervous and uncomfortable about "authority" to report it.

I took photos and reported them online, then called the council to say this was probably quite urgent. They were there the same afternoon, told the builders to secure the site and stop, and the following week the builders started to take it all down. The owners subsequently "had to sell their business" ... though I don't see why, frankly, unless they were also fined for it?

In an amusing follow-up, we later had the surveyor round, uninvited, because we had failed to get our new roof approved. We didn't know we had to and the roofer said this never happens! He was here for about 5 minutes, checked the insulation and left. The roofer said he had never known this happen before and someone must have had it in for us!

Soontobesingles · 29/04/2025 21:38

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2025 21:20

Unless you've been into their garden and measured from the structure's floor, at the highest point in their garden, to the eaves and the apex of the roof then you don't have an accurate measurement of the structure's height.

Those are the only measurements that matter.

Edited

Sure which is why I wondered if I should report or just deal with it. However I won’t sleep until I know it’s in regs and even then it hurts that someone who we have gone out of our way to be kind to over the years would do this.

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Nannydoodles · 29/04/2025 21:39

Good luck! Our neighbour built a monster fence over 4 metres high along the complete length of our boundary fence so that they could build a sort of outside cooking/ seating area on their side.
We reported it to the council who said it wasn’t allowed but did nothing, then the building ombudsman who came out, made a detailed report and again said “no, well over permitted development and needs to come down”” and passed it back to the council to enforce.
But he-ho the council have no actual enforcement officers apparently now and so the fence still remains.
Our only options now are to get a solicitor involved or go to court over it but after a few years we have grown plants and shrubs up it so it doesn’t actually look that bad now, plus luckily, it doesn’t block any light out of the garden.

TheSilentSister · 29/04/2025 21:43

It's not real unless there is a diagram OP, lol.

IdrisElbow · 29/04/2025 21:43

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Hastentoadd · 29/04/2025 21:45

Soontobesingles · 29/04/2025 19:46

Yes but on a slope so towers at 4.5m, plus which our garden is dropped from theirs so effectively the size of another house from the vantage of our garden.

Could they make it lower or would it be impossible

Reddog1 · 29/04/2025 21:45

They’re “going mad” because they suspect you have a point. If they had been diligent, they’d be able to explain it calmly.

Easipeelerie · 29/04/2025 21:50

Soontobesingles · 29/04/2025 15:24

DH measured and it is way above the regs. They are trying to gaslight by arguing about the slope in their garden, hoping we will calm down. We have lived here years and always got on with them so think they are surprised we are so cross.

Who cares if they try to galslight you. Facts are facts. Just get the planning dept involved.

LurkyMcLurkinson · 29/04/2025 21:51

Our neighbours pulled a similar stunt and we reported them on the basis it ruined any privacy we had previously had. Planning made them apply for retrospective planning permission.

heroinechic · 29/04/2025 21:59

@LurkyMcLurkinson did you object during the consultation and did they get the planning permission?

DozyBugger · 29/04/2025 21:59

Daughterillness · 29/04/2025 15:52

You say garden office but it has foundations? Everyone I know who has had a garden office/room installed has had to have a concrete base, the fact this has foundations seems unusual ? I’d report and if they are within regulations then fine but it’s worth checking.

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A concrete base is the same as a foundation.

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