NC
To be really fed up with my cousin to the point I want to go LC.
My cousin has always been tricky. Nothing is ever her fault, always the victim.
My family including myself have always rallied and supported her through every single disaster, crisis, dispute etc that’s occurred in her life.
I absolutely acknowledge that we have assisted in creating this cycle of cleaning up the mess. All will be fine for a few months, then repeat. For years.
I acknowledge we did this to help make it go away because it was so, so stressful. My cousin can be spoilt, rude, ungrateful and lies alot, thinking I’m too thick to know that she’s lying.
My cousin now has a 3 year old child. My cousin is 42.
She is a single parent and has met a man. In my opinion a walking red flag. They have been “dating” for eight weeks.
This man has stayed in her home overnight and they have spent a lot of time together in these eight weeks. Along with her 3 year old child.
I am appalled.
I want to leave her to it and go LC. I have so far said nothing. As she always knows best, has excuses or lies about what’s happening, what she’s been doing etc
I only want to stay in contact at all for the sake of the child.