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outlanderish · 28/04/2025 09:34

I work from home full time with occasional travel. My employer allows either a half hour or one hour lunch break, based on personal choice. I typically don’t take a formal break instead, I take brief pauses throughout the day (e.g. five minutes here and there to make a coffee, play with my dog, or put a load of laundry on), while otherwise remaining at my desk and working.

Recently, my manager called me to ask why I appear “orange” (away) a lot during the day. I explained that I take small, informal breaks rather than a long formal one. She told me this was unacceptable, even though my approach has not negatively impacted my productivity. In fact, I’m often more efficient this way. I also need to get up regularly as it hurts my back sitting for a long period of time

Other colleagues especially smokers also step away from their desks regularly, but it seems to be accepted for them.

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Packcold · 28/04/2025 11:00

It will be becuase there are other concerns a out your work rate. No one cares if you make a cup of tea 14 times a day, if the works getting done. MNetting during the working day, in addition to multiple "short" breaks will show.

OVienna · 28/04/2025 11:02

It might be helpful to know what sort of work you do to figure out how unreasonable your boss may or may not be.

In my team, we would only comment on someone's Teams light if there was another performance issue and/or the person was routinely hard to contact/unresponsive to emails and calls. If things were otherwise well, no one would generally notice.

It's possible this is some sort of excuse - i.e. they can't think of a more mature and direct way to raise performance issue with you.

BleachedJumper · 28/04/2025 11:03

On Teams when you hover over someone’s away status, it does give a ‘last seen 37 minutes ago’ time message.

I have a colleague who is visibly away for 1/2 hour stretches. I’m aware of it, but it’s not really any of my business. It may be if I was her managers, but I’m not.

Are you delivering well regarding workload?

Ultimately I see home working as a big perk, and it doesn’t bother me to be available for the majority of the working day. I don’t feel like I need to give my employer a reason to be displeased with my performance.

3amamama · 28/04/2025 11:04

This thread is so depressing. Cannot believe the nonsense that is the modern office workplace.

The idea that someone managing professionals is monitoring bloody teams lights or anything like that is utterly ludicrous. That is not management - I don’t even know what I would call it. An absolute waste of time and money.

Productivity and quality are not measured by time spent, but by output.

No wonder there is a mental health crisis, people aren’t meant to live like this.

Wexone · 28/04/2025 11:04

Sweet lord - The other day i was on site for an all day meeting, yes i was physically in the room but even though my meeting was in my calendar my teams often went orange, Does this mean i wasnt working ? No it doesnt, also often have been at my desk and a colleague comes over and talks to me my teams goes orange too. When at home if taking time to read something or on my work mobile, it also goes orange. Unless your work is lacking and manager are not getting responses then this screams micro management. You should not be chained to your desk 24/7. Lord we even have training there a few weeks ao to manage emails and the tip was only to look at your emails three times a day if your work dependent on it - Teams is not a way to monitor people

Roselilly36 · 28/04/2025 11:05

I would assume the breaks are longer than five minutes and that’s why it’s flagged up. I would be careful, as you might find they will call you back to the office.

JustABitLivid · 28/04/2025 11:08

rosemarble · 28/04/2025 10:11

Ask your ineffective manager to explain why more frequent, smaller breaks are not acceptable. Until you know why then you can't address the issue. Does your contract state what your breaks are?

I can't believe the number of people who support mouse jigglers. I'd never even heard of them before reading about them on MN. I'm so glad I don't feel I need to deceive my manager about the work I'm doing. That can't be a healthy way to work.

I agree it's a sad state of affairs. But I think if companies focused more on output, deadlines and performance rather than mechanical bums on seats, mouse clicking measures, which betray a lack of trust in employees and treat them like wayward children, they can only expect these sorts of workarounds.

I have a friend whose company has a ridiculous system where the laptop screens switch off to lock screen every 30 seconds. So if you turn away from your PC to make a call, or even if you're reading a document without moving the mouse, the screen locks and you have to input your password to log in again. It's madness. They say it's for security but to me it's just a way to control their staff. My friend is so demoralised by it. And it's such a disruption to one's workflow, too.

scotstars · 28/04/2025 11:11

Are you adding up the time? It seems a bit odd that your manager has managed to notice you are away a lot unless they are a micro manager it's pretty unlucky that anytime they check you are frequently away especially as everyone presumably is at various times for toilet breaks etc

BleachedJumper · 28/04/2025 11:15

@scotstars I’d bet that the manager has set that her direct reports status changes come through as a notification, so she may not be looking at it but being notified each time it happens.

LetTheWindBlowBackYourHair · 28/04/2025 11:16

If your manager is noticing it enough to comment, I would think either you are away far too much or your manager doesn't have enough work to do.

But then, if all your work is getting done when it should do, does it matter?

I think it's a legal requirement you have a full 20 minutes break in one go if working more than 6 hours rather than have it if you fancy or split it up throughout the day?

And you lot with your mouse jigglers, really? And people wonder why WFHomers get called lazy!

boxtop · 28/04/2025 11:21

Not using the new version of Teams right now but a thing that used to work was blocking out time to work on a task (e.g. "write annual report") as a meeting with yourself, then your status will go red/DnD instead of orange. Does that still work?

Also a counter-intuitive thing I recommend is manually setting it to away at a time when you are in regular communication with your boss to undermine Teams' credibility!

Or just tell your boss that you print stuff off and work offline.

Whole thing is totally ridiculous, and I say that as a digital native millennial who is generally pro-tech, with 10+ years line management experience.

AliBaliBee1234 · 28/04/2025 11:22

boxtop · 28/04/2025 11:21

Not using the new version of Teams right now but a thing that used to work was blocking out time to work on a task (e.g. "write annual report") as a meeting with yourself, then your status will go red/DnD instead of orange. Does that still work?

Also a counter-intuitive thing I recommend is manually setting it to away at a time when you are in regular communication with your boss to undermine Teams' credibility!

Or just tell your boss that you print stuff off and work offline.

Whole thing is totally ridiculous, and I say that as a digital native millennial who is generally pro-tech, with 10+ years line management experience.

It still goes orange if you're away

WinWhenTheyreSinging · 28/04/2025 11:22

My Teams goes on to 'Away' when I am active on the PC in particular programmes, although I'm very much there, so they'd have a field day with me.

AxolotlEars · 28/04/2025 11:25

Take up smoking

AxolotlEars · 28/04/2025 11:26

Well...not really...but I understand your frustration that others can have smoking breaks

Pikablue · 28/04/2025 11:26

Isobel201 · 28/04/2025 10:23

Anybody should be able to get up for a five minute stretch after an hour of sitting without having to go through OH or getting a reasonable adjustment.

Indeed, but teams as a default doesn't switch to orange/away for 5 minutes, so no one is likely to know which suggests OP is taking longer.

theemmadilemma · 28/04/2025 11:27

KarateSchnitzel · 28/04/2025 09:40

Don't do this, some companies can detect them

This. They can be detected.

JustABitLivid · 28/04/2025 11:27

mumzof4x · 28/04/2025 10:29

Unless your working in an urgent care setting it is absolutely not okay to not be okay with someone moving regularly and taking short breaks to stretch / move etc
I have an app on my phone I think it’s called Flow or something and every 20 mins (I can change this) I get an alarm to move for 5 mins
this maintains my physical and mental health
Before this i used to sit at my desk like your manager has asked, for hours on end
I gained a stone / my ankles swelled and I had a heart attack
I am 53 and have 4 children.
my workplace completely trust me to wfh as effectively as I can while prioritising mental and physical health but perhaps I’m just lucky
As such I probably work more hours than I’m paid for but I really don’t mind because there is mutual respect
Your organisational culture sounds dreadful
Perhaps you could lead the way somehow and suggest positive ways for management to embrace healthy change?

I need this app! Thanks for recommending. What kind of movement do you do for the 5 minutes? Chores or walking on the spot ir something? I'm not sure what I'd do.

Also I'm sorry that your health was so badly affected, but I'm glad you are doing better now.

I find it really disturbing how many companies and people here think it's ok to make workers chained to their desks at the expense of their health and wellbeing.

RedSkyDelights · 28/04/2025 11:28

Default Teams takes 5 minutes to show you as away (though worth checking if your company has set something different). That's enough to go to the loo/put on washing/make a cup of tea. Or get up and stretch.

If your manager has flagged it I suspect that you are taking a lot more breaks, and for longer, than you think you are. She might be monitoring you closely, or she might just be finding that every time she wants to talk to you, you are "away".

I would suggest keeping your own log of every break. This will either give you evidence to prove that your breaks or not excessive, or make you realise that, actually you are taking more thank you think you are.

I never get the "I'm still productive" reason. Unless you have fixed tasks to do in the day, you will generally "produce" more if you (e.g. ) work for 7 hours a day than if you work 5 hours a day.

Zeitumschaltung · 28/04/2025 11:29

You've committed to an answer now by being honest about your 5 minute breaks, so most of the options posters are mentioning are no longer open to you unless you want to look uncooperative to your boss, no matter how unreasonable she is.
If you can't set the time that the status turns from green yourself, you'll have to use a timer to ensure you aren't away for longer than 5 minutes for a while, until you are off her radar.

Pikablue · 28/04/2025 11:31

JustABitLivid · 28/04/2025 11:27

I need this app! Thanks for recommending. What kind of movement do you do for the 5 minutes? Chores or walking on the spot ir something? I'm not sure what I'd do.

Also I'm sorry that your health was so badly affected, but I'm glad you are doing better now.

I find it really disturbing how many companies and people here think it's ok to make workers chained to their desks at the expense of their health and wellbeing.

Who is suggesting people are chained to their desks? There is a difference between taking a break every so often to stretch your legs/go to the toilet etc and claiming to stagger your breaks through the day instead of taking a lunch yet appearing away a lot of using a mouse jiggler as some suggest. It's not unreasonable for people to be working during the work day.

Littlemisscapable · 28/04/2025 11:33

3amamama · 28/04/2025 11:04

This thread is so depressing. Cannot believe the nonsense that is the modern office workplace.

The idea that someone managing professionals is monitoring bloody teams lights or anything like that is utterly ludicrous. That is not management - I don’t even know what I would call it. An absolute waste of time and money.

Productivity and quality are not measured by time spent, but by output.

No wonder there is a mental health crisis, people aren’t meant to live like this.

this x 100000... what am I reading?

PhilippaGeorgiou · 28/04/2025 11:34

outlanderish · 28/04/2025 09:41

Ohhh, what's a mouse jiggler?! Is this a new 21st century invention?! @doodleschnoodle@EilishMcCandlish

It's the thing that employers are well aware of, many now have detectors anyway, but even if they don't they can have IT install activity monitors when they suspect certain people (who may have been pulled up before, for example), and they get you dismissed for gross misconduct. My last employer sacked about five people a week for a month - it concentrated people's minds on not assuming employers are stupid.

Lascivious · 28/04/2025 11:39

Ridiculous and draconian. I never even look at my team’s status on teams.

Ezzee · 28/04/2025 11:39

Open a word doc, stick a large paper clip in keyboard to the right of the page down key.