Still living together whilst going through divorce. Since our daughter turned one, she’s been more attached to me. She’s abit over 2 now, My stbx can’t cope with it, I was sympathetic when we were married. But now iv reached the end of my tether. He makes it extremely clear how it makes him feel. He guilt trips her, is cold and dismissive to her when she speaks to him after she’s made it clear she wants me instead. Mimics her when she is calling for me, speaks sarcastically to her and just downright sulks. She’s started sensing this and tries to correct her behaviour (not that it’s wrong) and please him, to which he is just cold and moody.
Him and his mother booked a holiday to Majorca for September (without telling me) for 12 nights. Iv asked can he change it to 7, as 12 nights is too long for me, and I feel too long for her. He’s refused to.
If she starts asking for/wanting me when they are over there then what is he going to be like with her? I’m considering refusing to let her go if he doesn’t change it as watching him, and watching how our daughter is now is reacting to him, his behaviour is unacceptable and I feel it’s going to start causing issues for her.