To not be honest with someone?

[Twinboymum2010]

I was seeing a guy for 3 weeks. He had lots to give, he lived local, had his own house, good job, nice etc
BUT
There were vital things missing. He had really bad breath, he kept his toothpaste in the shower and didn’t shower before work so I don’t think he actually brushed his teeth in the morning? Also sorry for tmi but he NEVER went down on me, ever, despite me hinting numerous times, I would always go down on him every time we would have sex and if I ever insinuated that I wasnt going to he would essentially shove my head down there or suggest I do it. I was going to ask him why he doesn’t do it but honestly the bad breath was a deal breaker for me. But problem is he fell pretty hard, I ended things beginning of last week and just said I wasnt feeling it but he keeps asking why and that he thought we were perfect together. We were only dating for a few weeks and I don’t want to be mean and hurt his feelings. AITA for not owing him an explanation?

I know what you mean. Still not okay. Especially when he doesn’t reciprocate.

Just block Mr stinky breath and move on

The worst is this is him at his best, making a real effort. Imagine in 10 years time.... very unpleasant. For what its worth I wouldnt sleep with a man after 3 weeks unless I was seriously into him. For this exact reason, I learnt the hard way too, they can be very clingy, and sometimes it can become stalking.

Ew didn’t even think of it that way!

I’d just block him at this point.