My sister has always"liked a drink" I have always been there for her. She is the kind of maudlin drunk and she will dredge anything up including perceived trauma from childhood NB we had a lovely childhood at home but she was bullied at school so she had it tough at times. She also phones or texts cousins, friends anyone who'll listen at all times of night and day and it's not one text its long winded and sometimes nasty. I have always smoothed everything over for her when people tell.me she's contacted them.
She is thr type of person who'll drop a bomb of information like her partner (now ex) has abused her in some way and when you are all worked up and worried will repeatedly ignore phone calls. She took 15 grand for gastric surgery from my pensioner parents with the proviso she will pay is back but has not given them a penny in five years. She has a nephew who she completely ignores and dotes on her friends kids.
Our dad recently had some bad news and she put on Facebook that she is going to be crying all day and people messaged her and she told them what had happened even before my dad had the chance to decide what he wanted to do with the news.
I got angry and shouted at her and she has now blocked me saying that she doesn't want to speak to me at the moment even though she MUST know she is wrong. He lovely boyfriend did ring me and said she'd gone off her "nut" and he is moving out, she is drinking at 4am and he can't cope.
Miraculously he till wants to be with her but live separately in the hope she'll get help. She tells lie after lie, pretending she has an MA, pretending she isn't drinking etc. My patience is done she talks about people abusing her buy I think she is the abusive, sanctimonious alcoholic. I'm having to come to terms with the fact that she is not what I hoped for in a sister.