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Crisps shouldn’t be allowed in the theatre

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coffeegirl73 · 26/04/2025 02:13

Went to a play tonight - a professional production - tickets weren’t cheap. But for me it was spoilt by people all round me munching from large family size bags of crisps and bags of sweets. I just feel it’s very disrespectful to the performers. It seems mad to me that we can’t go an hour without eating?? They were selling ice cream at the interval which is kinda traditional I guess and most people finishing off their ice cream wouldn’t make noise. The 2nd half was worse- the girl beside me had a large bag of sweets that were individually wrapped and she was constantly unwrapping sweets and offering them to her friends. Was at Stratford there last year and there’s no way you would eat through the performance but this theatre is also pretty well known. Was very annoyed

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NormasArse · 27/04/2025 17:07

Watching Of Mice and Men once, when I woman came in (late) and proceeded to open a family sized bag of kettle chips…

Catandsquirrel · 27/04/2025 17:08

Justfreedom · 27/04/2025 16:38

I dont drink wine but i like ice-cream.
If im going out im going out to have fun if others dont like it thats on them knowing what these`s places are like.
If i have to sit 45-60 minutes sometimes near people with screaming kids or bright phones on why should i care about eating crisp.

I don't understand your logic. Why would you make it harder for other people to enjoy a live performance? Children shouldn't be screaming (except children's performances or panto) and people shouldn't be on bright phones at the theatre or ballet. Cinema is rude enough if they're doing it without any care but at least it's expected that there will be snacks.

Grammarnut · 27/04/2025 19:47

nyancatdays · 27/04/2025 15:27

Oh come on. It’s one thing not being precious about theatres, but yet another paying £50 per ticket for people to be eating sandwiches and salad boxes and drinking beer (and spilling it) all over the auditorium during the performance. It’s not a cafe FFS!

Theatres have carpets and upholstered seats for dampening noise in the auditorium, so food spills and smells are time consuming and expensive to get out. Since the particular theatre I mentioned started allowing beer and other drinks in the auditorium, the entire place has that piss smell of stale beer that clearly can’t be cleaned. That’s why cafes and bars generally have hard flooring and pubs stopped having carpet.

I don’t want to pay £150 to take my daughter and mum to the ballet for a treat, and sit for three hours in a stench of hummus, garlic mayo and stale pissy beer the whole time whilst crunching stale popcorn underfoot. If I wanted to eat my dinner at a performance, I’d watch a DVD. It’s disgusting and really antisocial and the venues shouldn’t do it. What’s wrong with some ice cream or chocolate in the interval? I’ve been going to that theatre since I was a kid and now won’t go again. Really disappointing.

Upthread I agree with you. But a glass of wine carried from the bar is probably ok. Otherwise one would not have time to drink it. None of the venues I frequent smell of beer and none of them allow food in the auditorium.

TheHerboriste · 28/04/2025 00:18

Maitri108 · 27/04/2025 16:53

I think they should have a choice. Some performances are food/drink/phone free and I would book those any time.

And childfree

Maitri108 · 28/04/2025 00:19

TheHerboriste · 28/04/2025 00:18

And childfree

I've never been to a theatre performance with young children.

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 28/04/2025 00:31

@coffeegirl73 Oh, I am 100% with you! I spent £100 on a ticket to see 'Wicked' a couple of months back. The show was great. The audience were appalling! As you say, crisp munching through multipack bags, people whispering (or full on talking!) walking in and out during the show meaning everyone in the row had to keep getting up and down, playing on their phones during the performance, and several members of the audience around me didn't deign to clap at the end! I was so disgusted.

beAsensible1 · 28/04/2025 07:41

Nanny0gg · 27/04/2025 15:48

What's the point in performing if half the audience can't hear you??

Considering people can hear from 3 floors up someone having a sip of juice or a bite of a snack I think you’ll manage.

Reliablesource · 02/05/2025 07:54

I wish people would stop saying that behaviour has got worse since Covid. People didn’t suddenly forget how to behave during Covid! There has been a steady decline in manners and consideration for others over the past 15/20 years. Society has become increasingly selfish and entitled. That is why Millennials are such an obnoxious generation of entitled snowflakes, and they are now introducing the next generation of selfish, self-important children, so things will only get worse.

A more neighbourly attitude does seem to still exist in smaller communities but in the cities, it’s a really unpleasant me, me, me attitude most of the time.

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