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To wonder why hankies haven't made a comeback?

273 replies

Eestar · 25/04/2025 23:29

The world is so eco friendly and waste conscious now... plastic straws are out with the dinosaurs, light bulbs have completely changed since my childhood, and using plastic bags seems almost punishable by law... Some of my braver friends have even embraced cloth nappies.

With all of this in mind, using single-use paper tissues just to blow your nose seems such a waste, with an easy and obvious solution - so why are hankies not more of a 'thing' by now??

OP posts:
Lincslady53 · 26/04/2025 07:31

Oh, the wood used to make tissues is usually from sustainable forests, the problem is they are farmed, so plantations of pine trees so not the diversity in natural woodland.

LilDeVille · 26/04/2025 07:31

I used cloth nappies to avoid plastic going into landfill. I would never use ‘family cloth’ (reusable loo roll 🤢) because toilet paper doesn’t hang around for centuries. So same logic for hankies.

sandgrown · 26/04/2025 07:32

When I met my ex husband he always had a freshly laundered hankie in his pocket .

fungibletoken · 26/04/2025 07:32

We sometimes use a muslin on our toddler's nose. During an unusually long period of having back to back colds myself I started thinking I might like my own one 😅 Some have said upthread they'd find the idea of washing a hanky grim, but I think toddler laundry desensitises you a bit!

Londonrach1 · 26/04/2025 07:33

I use them. I can't use tissues as they sit off my hay fever. Wish they were easier to find.

FrenchFancie · 26/04/2025 07:37

We use hankies all the time - switch to paper tissues if we get a nasty cold, but otherwise it’s hankies. They just go in the normal wash.

clean one every day, so not gross to look at. Bought a huge pack of 20 about six years ago and must have saved loads over the years.

faerietales · 26/04/2025 07:42

Because they’re absolutely revolting 🤢

IsItAllRubbish · 26/04/2025 07:44

People often don’t bin their tissues. Every day I walk the dog I see them all over the ground. I notice because it’s my dog’s favourite forbidden treat.

Keepingongoing · 26/04/2025 07:46

I’ve always used hankies. If I blow my nose, they go straight into the wash. Don’t see how washing used hankies is any more problematic than washing pants that you’ve worn. But they’re also so useful just to have in my pocket. Wipe up a small spill of food or drink, wrap round my finger for a small cut while I find a bandage….They take up no space in a load of washing and I don’t iron them, just fold then neatly.

I sometimes buy them but also make my own hankies from used cloth, especially from Indian cotton dressing gowns, which I love but they do wear out quickly. The cotton in those is soft and absorbent and perfect for hankies.

Sesma · 26/04/2025 07:49

DH uses them always, I put them in the hot wash with the sheets each week after putting them in a bowl of disinfectant water, I have picked them up in sales over the years

Sesma · 26/04/2025 07:55

2cubesoficeandasliceoflime · 26/04/2025 06:58

Trtft

We used cloth nappies and wipes. You scrap most of the poo into the toilet before putting them in the wash. Or you can buy flushable nappy liners that catch the poo. There is a HUGE environmental impact of all the plastic and chemicals in a disposable nappy. They are awful, disgusting things.

Maybe I'm naive but I don't think there is such a huge impact of paper tissues.

I have thought about getting hankies. I have a constant runny nose. I go through loads of those little packets of tissues (I try to buy the paper wrapped ones). I'd end up having pockets of used hankies. Maybe if I just used tissues occasionally, it would be more practical? But then, you need to iron hankies so...

DH's general hankies aren't ironed, they are usually screwed up in his trousers pocket or under his pillow. Obviously if he wanted them ironed he could do it

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 07:55

sandgrown · 26/04/2025 07:32

When I met my ex husband he always had a freshly laundered hankie in his pocket .

I always think it’s vaguely sexy for men to be able to come to your aid with a clean white handkerchief. Same as tipping their hats. Maybe I’ve seen Brief Encounter too many times.

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 07:58

Anyotherdude · 26/04/2025 07:30

Any eco-friendly credentials go out of the window because to properly sterilise them, they need to be boil-washed.
Any hygiene credentials go out of the window because the germs that are produced by nose-blowing multiply on the hanky throughout the day.
Single-use tissues, disposed of properly, followed by washing your hands after use, is the most hygienic way of handling, and not spreading, your cold/‘flu or COVID

Presumably people are running a hot wash once or twice a week for towels anyway? You just lob them in with that. You can keep them in a bucket of napisan in the interim if you’re keen to practise maximum hygiene.

Bfmamma · 26/04/2025 07:58

I don't understand why people are getting so grossed out .
We use muslins for babies which are filled with puke and snot. They go in the machine and we reuse? I do not use hankies but my nearly 7 year old still prefers using a muslin to tissue as it's softer. We have them in every room/bag and pocket! We've all used them if needed

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 08:00

Londonrach1 · 26/04/2025 07:33

I use them. I can't use tissues as they sit off my hay fever. Wish they were easier to find.

Honestly, John Lewis has LOADS. Mostly gents, admittedly but a lot of them are multipacks of plain cotton.

faerietales · 26/04/2025 08:02

Bfmamma · 26/04/2025 07:58

I don't understand why people are getting so grossed out .
We use muslins for babies which are filled with puke and snot. They go in the machine and we reuse? I do not use hankies but my nearly 7 year old still prefers using a muslin to tissue as it's softer. We have them in every room/bag and pocket! We've all used them if needed

It’s not the reusable aspect, it’s the fact that people blow their noses and then have it sat in their pockets or bags all day 😫

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 26/04/2025 08:03

Because snotty hankies are disgusting and nobody wants them in with their other washing.

ClaredeBear · 26/04/2025 08:05

I’m down with everything on your list but hankies make me feel a bit queasy!

TunnocksOrDeath · 26/04/2025 08:06

Tissues can be made of 100% recycled paper, are biodegradable, and depending where you buy them, can be sold in zero-plastic packaging. They’re quite low-down on the list of things to ban, considering how beneficial they are to public health.

Londonrach1 · 26/04/2025 08:21

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 08:00

Honestly, John Lewis has LOADS. Mostly gents, admittedly but a lot of them are multipacks of plain cotton.

Sadly no John lewis near me. Marks used to sell them but they getting harder to find. The ones from Amazon are rubbish.

Tiddlywinkly · 26/04/2025 08:28

SipandClean · 25/04/2025 23:46

I remember my mum boiling them up on the stove to get them clean and sanitised. People can’t be doing with all that malarkey nowadays.

Yep, this. I can't be doing with it.

Doitrightnow · 26/04/2025 08:34

Eestar · 25/04/2025 23:49

This one made me laugh!

But - replying in general here to the "it's disgusting" posts - people carry "snotty, germ-ridden" tissues around with them sometimes surely? As in, if you have a cold, with one of those really miserable won't-stop-running noses, you don't blow your nose literally one time and then throw a whole tissue away? And then use an entirely new tissue one minute later? You blow your nose into a tissue a few times before binning it.

And cloth nappies are 10 times more disgusting to have in your washing machine, but you don't ever seem to have people reacting so viscerally to those. So I just wonder, why the vitriol for hankies, really. Obviously when kept freshly washed, as you would with underwear/socks etc!

Edited

I do use a damp cloth to wipe my arse. I thought it sounded gross but gave it a go after ending up with loads of reusable wipes which I used for DC. I'm a total convert! I hate using paper now, it feels like it doesn't get me properly clean.

I hated hankies in my childhood and was made to put them up my sleeve. But now I compromise by using hankies at home where I can put them in the same wet bag as reusable wipes immediately ready for washing, or out of the house if I don't have an actual cold (eg to catch the odd drip if it's cold weather etc). But if I actually have a cold then out of the house I use tissues.

I think people don't use it them because people people either don't think about it at all as it's no longer the norm, or think it's gross.

ajw7 · 26/04/2025 08:36

Hankies are great if you use them like tissues - use once then add them to the next hot wash. They are so much more comfortable if you have a cold.

Leafy3 · 26/04/2025 08:41

imnotwhoyouthinkiam · 25/04/2025 23:30

DS1 (20) is going to buy some when he has a chance to go to a shop. He has a permanently runny nose and is fed up of running out of tissues.
No idea where to get them from mind you, he doesn't have an M&S budget!

Chronic rhinitis is easily treatable, if he sees the GP they'll sort him out.

HoppingPavlova · 26/04/2025 08:44

Fucking disgusting. Should be banned. You should use a tissue once, bin it and wash your hands. You don’t keep a germ ridden, likely infectious piece of cloth, about your personal. My in-laws used them when alive. It’s my main memory. Used to make stomach acids come up my throat when I saw them use it and stuff it back in pocket or up their sleeves. Tissues were invented for a reason. Wasn’t to save washing, it was to minimise spread of infections.

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