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AIBU?

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Morality question- AIBU?

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StrawberrySmile · 24/04/2025 22:49

So I’m in the process of booking a holiday. I have a child with complex additional needs including autism, ADHD and a developmental delay (this is relevant!). I’m looking at booking a cruise and I’ve seen online that they have accessible rooms that are larger and have rails, walk in showers, no steps into bathrooms etc. on the website it said that these rooms are suitable for anyone with a disability or sensory need who would benefit from it. Now obviously this type of room has a very limited number on the ship, and apparently they sell out fast. But there’s a few still available. Would I be unreasonable to book it for my family so we can have the additional space? The website clearly states that we qualify, but I’m very aware that us using it could prevent a family with a wheelchair from being able to book. But without the room we would still manage? But it would make our lives easier to have that little bit of extra space. Especially for my other child. I can’t work out what to do?

YABU- leave the room for someone who can’t travel without it.
YANBU- my child’s needs are in the intimation for someone who is allowed to book the room so book it and don’t worry.

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StrawberrySmile · 26/04/2025 22:13

Thanks everyone. I’ve booked the accessible room. Annoyingly, it cost more than a regular room, but worth it for the space!

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