This has never happened to me before or since.
I connected with someone on a dating website. This person lives overseas.
we had a strong connection and after some weeks began discussing meeting up. I decided to delay that as I had hurt my leg and wanted to recover first.
He made light hearted funny jokes about whether I was real, we were strongly attracted to each other’s photos and there was heavy flirting and flurries of texts and audio messages throughout the day. We were both giddy and intensely focused on each other. I asked him to wait a month until I had recovered.
One day, I came home, and as the evening arrived, I drew the curtains in my living room and sat there to watch the television.
For some reason, I felt restless and uneasy, like I wanted to draw my blanket around myself tip to toe.
And then I felt an impulse and compulsion to make sure the curtains were fully closed and there were no little gaps that would allow my living room to be visible to the street. I got up and down and checked this several times, even though they were properly closed.
I was unsettled and thought I must be suffering a case of inexplicable anxiety or OCD or something, I thought I must be coming down with something and should take it easy.
I got up once more to check the curtains, I thought I must be suffering an episode of mental illness although this had never happened to me before.
On this occasion, I opened them and looked onto the street, I just felt a compulsion, like there was some event happening out there, I wondered if I’d heard a noise that hadn’t registered with me.
When I looked out, there he was, standing across the street and looking intently up into my window. When he saw me observing him, he looked down and quickly walked away.
I am quite astonished at these series of events.
Has anything like this happened to you, the weird sensing, it’s really baffling. I can’t explain the feeling.
Can someone explain or had similar happen?