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Mumsnet during the beginning of the Pandemic - please tell me your stories of the maddest comments you saw

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 17:49

Inspired by chat on another thread - one woman was told not to pop to the shop for milk but to put butter in her coffee instead 😄

I wasn't on mumsnet then but would love to know the maddest comments you saw?

I myself went mad during the pandemic 🙈 and refused to leave the house and judged anybody that did, I'll admit 😬😄 - I wish I'd been calmer

Please share 🥰

Edit - I know how awful the pandemic was for those who lost loved ones, and how serious those losses are - this is just about the unnecessary hysteria and comments stemming from that, not to poke fun at those who lost someone or became ill. 💕

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 18:48

Solacesolipse · 23/04/2025 18:47

The woman who had an air filter unit attached to her toddlers pushchair.

I had to take dd to the hospital, I've forgotten why now

I had her under the raincover the entire time and didnt touch her 😔

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MugsyBalonz · 23/04/2025 18:48

Cucumber and beach might have been me under other user names, unless this was a common theme in covid times.

DC has ARFID and due to the anxiety of lockdown reached a stage where they'd only eat Birds Eye Chicken Dippers and cucumber slices, nothing else. Our online shop subbed the BE Dippers for Turkey Dinosaurs and they are very much Not The Same Thing, cucumber didn't turn up at all. I went to two different shops, got the nuggets in one (and bought three bags of them like a "selfish hoarder") then got cucumber in the other (bought two of those as well). Got slated for it on here.

Took DC to the beach one afternoon too. We live within walking distance of it, ten minute stroll away, but DC goes through phases of can't walk-wont walk so I drove there. We needed fresh air and I needed him to run before one or the other of us ended up doing a little murder. Got slated for that too. I was selfish, would infect people, if I crashed the car then I'd be using valuable NHS resources blah blah blah.

I remember people being rabid about the "ONE HOUR OF EXERCISE PER DAY!" even though it was never actually a rule. Where I live is rural, even now I can go out and walk for several hours and not see a single person but I was called selfish for doing this during lockdown.

I remember a lot of kick off too about people wanting to holiday in tourist areas and people who actually live there pointing out that public toilets, holiday parks/hotels, play parks, facilities, etc weren't actually open again and the infrastructure for tourism hasn't resumed yet so it would be hugely damaging to suddenly have a massive influx. Lots of people telling residents they were selfish for trying to hoard these lovely areas for themselves.

sandyhappypeople · 23/04/2025 18:49

Upstartled · 23/04/2025 18:15

Oh, the clapping - I did the clapping 😱. I regard it with the horror of looking back at my teen years and scaffolding my fringe to epic heights with back combing and hairspray.

Don't be ashamed, it had good intentions in fairness! I didn't like the clapping and banging though and refused to take part, but I remember walking to the shop one day, forgetting it was 'that' time and as I walked towards some houses with people clapping an older man was walking past the end of their gate with his shopping, and the woman really aggressively screamed at him..

WELL FCKNG CLAP THEN!!!!! IT'S FOR THE NHS!!!!

He almost dropped his shopping in fright! Then he hurried off, I remember thinking at the time how crazy it had gotten.

Solacesolipse · 23/04/2025 18:50

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 18:48

I had to take dd to the hospital, I've forgotten why now

I had her under the raincover the entire time and didnt touch her 😔

I can understand that ,hospitals are cess pits of infection, but this woman had one for walks in the open air!

Fizbosshoes · 23/04/2025 18:50

User135644 · 23/04/2025 18:44

Various threads of "I've just been to the park and there were loads of people there. Why won't people stay home"

And stock responses to "I need to go out to do x y or z" of "the virus doesn't care".

We used to get this on our town fb page like the person posting was obviously the only person who had a proper valid reason for being out 🙄

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 18:50

Solacesolipse · 23/04/2025 18:50

I can understand that ,hospitals are cess pits of infection, but this woman had one for walks in the open air!

😄

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XenoBitch · 23/04/2025 18:51

I remember a thread where OP was worried about "Covid bubbles" being blown into her garden from the kids next door.

CamillaMacauley · 23/04/2025 18:51

I posted that I was driving 3 miles to a quiet wood to walk the dog where I didn’t see people rather than do pavement walks in my busy village and people went crazy. No common sense that actually my plan meant seeing less people.

Itsonlybridget1 · 23/04/2025 18:52

Snorlaxo · 23/04/2025 18:13

My ex (who worked in tech) was convinced that if he drove down the M1 to see the kids then he’d be stopped by the police. I showed him the “rules” which said that separated parents could transport the kids between homes but he was uncharacteristically obedient.

When rules started to relax, he thought it was irresponsible of me to let our teens meet their friends outdoors. No health issues btw but I’d do it again. Some of them would bring their dog so it looked like they bumped into my child during their “exercise”

My friend lived in Doncaster and travelled to Sheffield to work (he was an essential worker) he got pulled over twice on the parkway by the police asking him where he was going

MugsyBalonz · 23/04/2025 18:53

XenoBitch · 23/04/2025 18:51

I remember a thread where OP was worried about "Covid bubbles" being blown into her garden from the kids next door.

I remember someone who wanted to know if she was being unreasonable to ask her neighbours to agree to a garden rota so that everyone wasn't outdoors at the same time because either side of the fences was less than 2m apart.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 18:54

MugsyBalonz · 23/04/2025 18:48

Cucumber and beach might have been me under other user names, unless this was a common theme in covid times.

DC has ARFID and due to the anxiety of lockdown reached a stage where they'd only eat Birds Eye Chicken Dippers and cucumber slices, nothing else. Our online shop subbed the BE Dippers for Turkey Dinosaurs and they are very much Not The Same Thing, cucumber didn't turn up at all. I went to two different shops, got the nuggets in one (and bought three bags of them like a "selfish hoarder") then got cucumber in the other (bought two of those as well). Got slated for it on here.

Took DC to the beach one afternoon too. We live within walking distance of it, ten minute stroll away, but DC goes through phases of can't walk-wont walk so I drove there. We needed fresh air and I needed him to run before one or the other of us ended up doing a little murder. Got slated for that too. I was selfish, would infect people, if I crashed the car then I'd be using valuable NHS resources blah blah blah.

I remember people being rabid about the "ONE HOUR OF EXERCISE PER DAY!" even though it was never actually a rule. Where I live is rural, even now I can go out and walk for several hours and not see a single person but I was called selfish for doing this during lockdown.

I remember a lot of kick off too about people wanting to holiday in tourist areas and people who actually live there pointing out that public toilets, holiday parks/hotels, play parks, facilities, etc weren't actually open again and the infrastructure for tourism hasn't resumed yet so it would be hugely damaging to suddenly have a massive influx. Lots of people telling residents they were selfish for trying to hoard these lovely areas for themselves.

My dd is autistic, but she was one then

I can't imagine how we'd cope now, omg

Its so funny how the hysteria adapted itself to various people's needs - ie needing to be a tourist 😄

I did judge my neighbours trips outdoors 🙈,

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AliasGrape · 23/04/2025 18:54

I was just thinking about it over the Easter weekend as I was tucking into my hot cross bun, remembering the thread where people buying bread and milk were ok but if they’d added hot cross buns to their basket then they were murderers. One poster kept saying how much it had genuinely upset her that people were still planning on buying hot cross buns - maybe even trying some different flavours!

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 18:54

XenoBitch · 23/04/2025 18:51

I remember a thread where OP was worried about "Covid bubbles" being blown into her garden from the kids next door.

😄😄

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CamillaMacauley · 23/04/2025 18:54

The maddest thing I saw was the police in Sainsburys car park at 8am the first day of lock down searching people’s bags to see if their shopping was essential or not.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 18:55

CamillaMacauley · 23/04/2025 18:54

The maddest thing I saw was the police in Sainsburys car park at 8am the first day of lock down searching people’s bags to see if their shopping was essential or not.

Omgg

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AmazingBouncingFerret · 23/04/2025 18:55

My husband had to keep working all over the country and often slept in his car due to lack of accommodation, I remember I used to make him strip off at the door and get into a dettol bath!
He loved it, the roads were quiet.

XenoBitch · 23/04/2025 18:55

Fizbosshoes · 23/04/2025 18:28

Lots of ascertaining that it was definitely the people in B and M and the Range spreading covid rather than waitrose Confused

Not on here, but was on FB.
A chap in one of my local FB groups (and oh my god, they lost their collective minds during Covid) lived opposite The Range, and developed a hobby of watching what people were putting into their cars, making a note of their car model etc and posting it online to "shame" them... because he deemed their shopping non-essential. Said nothing in The Range is essential.

I do wonder what people like him do with their free time now.

Feelingleftoutagain · 23/04/2025 18:56

My son worked for a supermarket and he did home deliveries, he had a woman threaten to report him as he had a haircut during lockdown, he tried to explain that I had done it but she wouldn't stop, called the supermarket to complain too lol

Longleggedblond · 23/04/2025 18:56

well here's mine - when you could meet outside DS and fiance came over. I'd managed to get two huge packs of loo rolls. They were short of them so I insisted on putting them in a huge bag to disguise them in case he was mugged!!! He's a strapping lad but was taking no chances. I am a sensible retired nurse and couldn't believe my luck when morrisons let you have 2 packs of 12 loo rolls. He kept saying " Mum I'll be fine" but I got my own way.

UnstableMonkey · 23/04/2025 18:56

bookworm14 · 23/04/2025 18:31

I remember people being berated for the following:

Taking their child with SEN for a walk on a deserted beach because they would have to drive to get there

Allowing their Covid-positive child to make fudge

There was also the poster who queried whether she should make her 10-year-old isolate within the house - lots of people seemed to think the child would suffer no ill effects from this (there was talk of ‘creating a wind tunnel’ by opening doors and windows).

Not to mention the reaction to those of us who dared to suggest prolonged school closures might have negative effects…

I’m not in the UK, and our schools etc kept being open. I remember writing a comment about it and I was absolutely slammed. It was basically my country’s fault if the world ended. But, in the end our children didn’t end up with MH problems and our economy is fine.

Although, nobody knew what the outcome was going to be back then and as I was watching the UK news I had a sinking feeling when everything closed down in the UK and we..just kept going nearly as usual. UK rules was terrifying, like a bad film.

Our Government took a huge step back during this time, and let our state epidemiologist take charge.

Redglitter · 23/04/2025 18:57

I work in a Polics control room. It was absolutely depressing seeing what covid turned people into. The things people reported their neighbours for was awful

Allaboardtheraveytrain · 23/04/2025 18:57

In our city we had stickers on bins that said take your dog poo home with you to save dustmen having to empty them more often and therefore expose themselves to covid

Karmakamelion · 23/04/2025 18:58

ComtesseDeSpair · 23/04/2025 18:02

I remember some absolute nonsense-monger claiming that their DH “worked very high up in government policy” and insisting that he’d been given official instruction right from the top to (secretly, so as not to alarm anyone) start the widescale compulsory purchasing of nightclubs, arenas, music venues etc because they were never ever going to be allowed to open back up again, Covid was going to be far more lethal than any of us were being told, and he’d been advised we’d all be in full strict lockdown for at least the next two decades. It was delightfully bonkers.

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Wasn't delightfully anything was bloody terrifying

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 18:58

Longleggedblond · 23/04/2025 18:56

well here's mine - when you could meet outside DS and fiance came over. I'd managed to get two huge packs of loo rolls. They were short of them so I insisted on putting them in a huge bag to disguise them in case he was mugged!!! He's a strapping lad but was taking no chances. I am a sensible retired nurse and couldn't believe my luck when morrisons let you have 2 packs of 12 loo rolls. He kept saying " Mum I'll be fine" but I got my own way.

You weren't unreasonable, toilet paper wars were a real thing then 😄

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ThatsNotMyTeen · 23/04/2025 18:58

Hanging shopping on the line or giving it a light toasting in the oven
quarantining post
pensioners being called selfish cunts for taking a daily walk to buy a paper