DH and I have 2 kids, 2 businesses. So I understand why sex would be off the cards. But I’m a very sexual person and I can’t even remember the last time we did it. He always makes excuses: tired, hasn’t showered etc. in fact, he had given up personal hygiene completely and always stinks. We’re on vacation and I’ve found myself gawking at our neighbour in the next door hut. I talk to him often and I worry it’s developing into a crush. I get more excited to talk to him than my husband. I never would find men this attractive to the point where I want to bump into them. I feel like scum. A girl has needs and they are not being met. I used to feel like it was my fault. My DH would always make comments on my weight and make fun of me. By an act of god, I got a stomach ulcer which helped me lose tons of weight and I’m skinny and attractive again. I just don’t feel it when I’m with him. We are also in our 20s so I feel like we’re so young to throw in the sex towel. Unless we have an argument we never have sex (he likes it when things are heated for some reason) & we no longer share the same room because he doesn’t like our baby crying. Now that I’ve gone without, I realise sex with him is dead anyways. He wants but doesn’t give, does everything horribly wrong and it just isn’t passionate. Now that we aren’t doing it at all I can’t help but to crave more. Should I end things with my husband as it isn’t fair on him that I feel this way and it’s not fair on me I cant be intimate with no one.