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When will September born start school?

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Boomerpup · 22/04/2025 13:11

Hi I need help to figure this out please!
my son was born on 4th September 2023, will he start school the September after he’s 5 (the cut off is 31st august) or can he start in the January after his 4th birthday? Thanks!

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CanIComeToo · 24/04/2025 22:48

KatyaKat · 24/04/2025 22:37

I can't quite believe I'm writing this, and not sure if you're being obtuse but...

You don't get the 'extra year' when they're 18/19! You had that extra year (or not, in your case) when they were 4/5.

The August born child went to school at only just turned 4, therefore 4 years at home. The September born child went to school at 5 (or very nearly 5), therefore 5 years at home - the extra year. This extra year happens at the start of their school life, not the end, so I can't work out why you're stating that 19 year olds get an extra year, and you wish you had another year with your 18 year old. (I get it in terms of you not wanting them to leave home, but the comparison to an extra year at 18/19 literally makes no sense whatsover). If your child was an August 4 and you were saying you wish you had an extra year at 4/5, it would make sense.

You're both right! Yes, the September child has 5 years at home before starting school - and yes, the September child lives at home for 19 years (ie one year longer than an August child) before leaving home for university

KatyaKat · 24/04/2025 23:02

CanIComeToo · 24/04/2025 22:48

You're both right! Yes, the September child has 5 years at home before starting school - and yes, the September child lives at home for 19 years (ie one year longer than an August child) before leaving home for university

You're missing the point. At 4/5 it's an obvious point to make about the extra year, at 18/19 it's non-sensical. Factually it is correct, but the extra year at home was 14 years ago.

StripyHorse · 25/04/2025 18:13

@katyakat It's uch an odd thing that you have decided to pick me up on, being deliberately obtuse.

Go and troll someone else.

MereNoelle · 25/04/2025 18:44

I agree with @StripyHorse . DD1 will go to uni at nearly 19. DD2 at just turned 18. DD1 will therefore have an extra year living at home.
She didn’t have ‘an extra year at home’ before starting school, because they were both in full time nursery.

MrsSunshine2b · 25/04/2025 18:54

KatyaKat · 24/04/2025 22:37

I can't quite believe I'm writing this, and not sure if you're being obtuse but...

You don't get the 'extra year' when they're 18/19! You had that extra year (or not, in your case) when they were 4/5.

The August born child went to school at only just turned 4, therefore 4 years at home. The September born child went to school at 5 (or very nearly 5), therefore 5 years at home - the extra year. This extra year happens at the start of their school life, not the end, so I can't work out why you're stating that 19 year olds get an extra year, and you wish you had another year with your 18 year old. (I get it in terms of you not wanting them to leave home, but the comparison to an extra year at 18/19 literally makes no sense whatsover). If your child was an August 4 and you were saying you wish you had an extra year at 4/5, it would make sense.

You get both...you get an extra year at home with them before they start school (some children will start school days after their 4th birthday, OP's son will be starting school on or around his 5th birthday) AND they are a year older (19 rather than 18) when they start University, so you get an extra year of them living at home before they move out.

WhisperingTree · 25/04/2025 18:58

I’m with @StripyHorse too and I have a September DC. I do not have an extra year ‘at home’ before 5 because DC went to full time private nursery.

What I do had was extra terms at nursery where I was paying thousands a month compared to a child born a month earlier. I also have to pay more one more year until DC leaves full time education for work. If the child goes to university, then a august born starts working at 21 and a September born at 22.

I pretty much feel that as an older parent looking at retirement.

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