Is this selfish c***ish behaviour?

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Friend gave my DC small Easter eggs, milk button ones. Yesterday DH learned I didn’t reciprocate the gifts and told me to buy her DC some and go round and apologise that they’re late. I said I wouldn’t as I’m doing chemo and I just don’t have the mental or physical energy for it. Friend knows I’m going through this. DH told me I’m selfish and behaving like a c*.

I’m so hurt. He hasn’t apologised, and his olive branch is to say ‘we’ll have to agree to disagree’.

Husband the c**t , get rid.

Husband can See You Next Tuesday

Why didn’t he buy them.

He’s horrible. Why can’t he do this if it means so much to him. But he won’t.

HE can take the eggs round if it means that bloody much to him. My God!! How dare he call you a c* too, what is wrong with him? Don't do it OP, your friend did a nice thing and very likely didn't expect anything in return.

You don't have to constantly run around reciprocating everyone's nice gestures.

He is being very unfair but you have far more important things to think aboit. I hope your treatment goes well.

What a nob! Tell him most normal people don't give to receive. If he's so bothered about it he knows where the shops are!

I'm sorry you're going through chemo, that must be exhausting. Calling you misogynist names is the sign of a misogynist who has no respect for you. I wouldn't expect him to apologise as he doesn't care about you.

Hopefully when you're feeling better, you can do something about it.

Blimey is this how young people talk to each other nowadays?
I’ve been married for 37 years and my husband has managed to never ever sworn at me. I might say that’s because I’ve never annoyed him; but that wouldn’t be true.
Hope your chemo is going okay op and you have someone in your life to fuss over you.

That's a disgusting thing to say to anyone, but especially your wife and ESPECIALLY while she's going through chemotherapy. What on earth is wrong with him?

Edited to add- I'm so sorry you're ill and I hope you make a full recovery very soon.

Your husband is a nasty sour asshole.

I'm sorry for your situation.

I would imagine your friend wanted to treat your DC and did not expect you to reciprocate as your going through chemo. She would be upset it has caused aggro for you as it was just a nice gesture for your kids.

Your husband is an arse hole though.

I would imagine this behaviour from your wanker of a husband is the tip of the iceberg?

Your husband is a real piece of work. If he feels so strongly about it he could go out and buy eggs. As it happens I reckon fairly strongly that I can speak for most women on here and say if my friend was going through chemo I might buy her kids a treat as I would feel sad for them having to witness their mum poorly and wouldn't expect a gift back in return.

His behaviour is terrible I can’t believe he’s spoken to you like that.

Well why didn’t he just go and buy them some? How strange.

Do you need to ask? Of course it is.

That would genuinely be the end of my marriage.

I cannot conceive of my DH ever speaking to me like that under any circumstances. The fact that you are having chemo makes him sound utterly unhinged. If it's so bloody important to him why didn't he buy some eggs? He's just looking for an excuse to behave appallingly towards you.

I could never forgive him for that.

What a nasty piece of work your husband is. Is he usually this horrible?

You certainly are NOT a C**T. I would take those Easter eggs and shove them down his throat!

I hope your treatment is going ok. Very, very best of luck with everything.

He can buy them and take them himself. Arse.

Your husband is the cunt

Why couldn’t he go and get them eggs and pop them over if he thinks it should be done. He should be doing some things like this as you’re having chemo! When you have beaten cancer let him be the next thing you rid yourself of!!

What a nasty piece of work he is OP.

It's bad enough being ill without somebody who should be showing you love and care talking to you like this.

All best wishes to you for the success of your treatment.

What is stopping him buying and taking them round to your friend, if he’s that fussed. I am sure your friend understands that you are ill and is not bothered about non reciprocal eggs in the slightest. Your DH just sounds like he’s found an excuse to give you a hard time.

Sending every good wish for your recovery.